im a guy 18 yrs old. at my work theres this girl i really like shes 18 too. she was really friendly to me the first day and said HI.but bc im kinda shy the 1st day i just smiled and said hi kind of muzzled. now she never talks to me except the next day when she asked me where something was cause she couldnt find it. i do occasionally catch her looking at me though. but i just found out that shes a lesbian with 3 diff gf's. do u think i should still try to hook up with her and try to do something?
2006-12-24 03:18:17 · 28 answers · asked by LDshayne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never know until you try!!
2006-12-24 03:20:16 · answer #1 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok... She's a lesbian.. and you are a guy.. right?? Do you know the definition for a lesbian? That kinda means you should just forget about her because you could never have a normal relationship with a lesbian, things would always be messy..
But.. If you would like a messy relationship and really just want to hook up every now and then, then I say go for it. But if you would like to have a normal relationship find a girl thats not a lesbian
2006-12-24 11:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by Bored&Broken 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
L E S B I A N = NO GUYS
No I don't think you should try to hook up an do something. If you wonder why she stares at you just ask her and decide from there how to proceed. If you approach this with the intent to be with a girl and her girl you are going to be in for some trouble.
2006-12-24 11:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Since you are shy by nature this would not be anything that would be good for you, or help bring you out of your shyness because it could only end in rejection...unless you are looking strictly for a friend. Either way be friendly and practice you people skills. It might make it easier for you when you meet a girl that is better suited for you to pursue.
2006-12-24 11:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't try to hook up with her, you should ask if she'd like to hang out sometime or go to a movie. Maybe invite her to a party. Whatever you do you need to relax and stop trying, stop thinking of her "that way". Just get to know her and heck, maybe she has some hot straight or bi friends. This girl is the gateway to wonderful things!
2006-12-24 11:24:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go ahead and talk to her. Don't listen to what other people have to say about her. Find out for yourself. If she is a lesbian, she might just become a very good friend. If she is not, you might have a new girlfriend. Either way you have nothing to lose.
2006-12-24 11:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by sunny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was actually going to try to help you until that last part where you mention she is lesbian, but not only that but she has 3 different girlfriends?!!
um....is this a true story..if so she is playing a lot of people and needs to be steered clear of, also you aren't a girl so she obviously will not be interested in you...sorry.
2006-12-24 11:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she's a lesbian.....u dont have any sort of future together. i think you should forget about it, and look for another one. come on, she isnt the only one present on the face of the planet. i know it may seem like she's cute and stuff , but let it go. trust me, u dont want to be stuck with the fact that u know her reality and u know nothing can happen but still u are willing to try. so, the best option is, make her ur pal, nuthin more, and keep to that.
hope i helped.
2006-12-24 11:23:14 · answer #8 · answered by __Athena__ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because of your shyness, she think you're gay and wants to be a f-a-g hag.
But how do you know she's a lesbian? It's normal for girls to behave intimately in the public as long as it's not sex or tongue kissing. Don't assume anyone is gay untill that person tell you themselves.
2006-12-24 11:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she could be bisexual and maybe finds you a nice guy and maybe needs a little dick once inawhile and you are IT. Lucky guy.
Just ask her, "Was wondering if I offended you in some way, since you seemed friendly to me my first day at work."
2006-12-24 11:23:31 · answer #10 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do what u think is best! u like the girl so y not give it a try! if she says no, the only thing u can do is move on!
2006-12-24 11:22:45 · answer #11 · answered by hot_mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋