She's really cute and sweet and I really like her and I'm told she has a massive crush on me but will I even be able to compete in the bedroom since she's used to being with brothas. Should I even waste my time? She's probably used to "The Lady's Man" and I'm just an ordinary white guy. Heck I even walk with a limp because I have MS and I'm certainly not packing a thermos in my pants. I'd hate to disappoint her.
2006-12-24 03:14:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, she already knows you have MS and walk with a limp, but she has a crush on you anyway. Obviously she doesn't judge by external appearances. What you carry in your pants shouldn't matter either.
I'll let you in on a little secret about ladies. The upper 3/4ths of our, um, anatomy has no nerve endings and therefore feels nothing. Imagine how unbearable childbirth would be if we could feel anything way up in there. So it really is NOT the size that matters, it's what is done with it.
If she loves you, and if you make her feel loved as opposed to just screwed, she'll stay with you even if you had all the packaging of a baby hamster.
2006-12-24 06:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by cruztacean1964 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why worry if she has a crush on you she must like you for you, size is not all that matters it is how you treat a girl, you are putting yourself down before you even know the girl properly may be she is fed up with so called Lady's men she want someone who is genuine, just be yourself and go for it. good luck
2006-12-24 03:20:31 · answer #2 · answered by Adele 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax you're going to be alright. The important thing here is that she likes you - trust me she is going to like all of you. And as far as the famous stereotype - it is just that. Black dudes come in the same shape and sizes as any other dude. Besides, it sounds like you like here too. The true "measure" of a man is the courage to follow your heart. So, be "big" and go get your girl. Good luck man.
2006-12-24 03:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not interested in you because of your sexual anatomy. How do you know what her previous boyfriends were "packing"? Do yourself a favor and ask her out. When the time comes to be romantic and she rejects you because of size (which is a concern you really, really, really, shouldn't have) then you are better off without her.
2006-12-24 03:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's all a myth. I know a couple of women who have told me that themselves. Besides, if she has a crush on you, obviously she's looking at you for more than just your package. I say you should go for it. Just treat her with respect like any other woman. Don't worry about her past and who she's been with. Just enjoy being with her.
2006-12-24 03:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if she really liked you i donmt think size would matter all that would be imporatant would be hr being with you. and if she likes you she knows your white and probly already knows what she'll get. don worry about it things mihg tnot even cme to that. a.d even if they do ..not the size of the boat the motion of the ocean. good luck go get her
2006-12-24 03:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy...if u know how to use it..it won't matter whether u are a brotha or not. u r like vanilla ice cream to her and she wants a taste of you..stop being childish, raise yr head up and blow her away.she likes u the way u r. prove her right!!do it !!!do it!!
2006-12-24 03:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by disco ball 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all black men aren't big, that's one of the biggest lies out there. Its the same lie that all white men are small. Which she's no doubt heard that one before, but she truly likes you, so give her a try.
2006-12-24 03:25:14 · answer #8 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The brothers are not all that..she likes you...look at her as a girl (forget color) you like. Besides why should sex come into the equation before you have even dated her...don't worry she likes you
2006-12-24 03:19:53 · answer #9 · answered by JadeNicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it so much. The fact of the matter, she is interested in you for who you are, not who you are not. Remember there is a reason we save desert for the end...enjoy the meal.
2006-12-24 03:23:54 · answer #10 · answered by curiousJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋