i love my birds so much, they are better than any human. whenever i am feeling down they are the only souls around to make me feel better. my social life is pretty much nonexistent, so when my parents suggest the idea of spending christmas day without the birds, i choose to stay at home with my birds instead of being with my family.
these birds are an integral part of my life and it's hard enough going to work without them
2006-12-24 03:14:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Birds
I have never met a pet bird, that wanted to go somewhere, and leave his human behind!!! Likewise my parrot doesn't talk about me, argue with me, or leave me for another human, or try to sleep with my girlfriend---what better of a friend for life could you possibly have??? Birdman
2006-12-24 16:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by birdman1890 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm also a bird person and love them dearly. I've even bought seats for them on aircraft so I could fly with them across country so they (or is it I ?) wouldn't be alone. Even so, I think you need to examine what the birds mean to you. The reason I say this is because you said your social life is pretty much nonexistent and that's not good for you. Reading through the lines your parents may be gently suggesting it. too.
Get a traveling cage and take them with you to your parents if you must.
2006-12-24 04:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I put my bird before my family. Too bad we can't pick our relatives. My mother just ruined Christmas, but hey she stabs me in the back all the time so I guess it's really no great loss.Now she and her husband will not come over as my depression deepens. All my bird wants to do is cheer me up.When has a human ever cared? Now I will search for compassionate and kind people. They must be out there. Make others your real family.Just keep being kind to others and I bet they will find us.Have a tweet Christmas.
2006-12-24 09:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by firestarter 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
They should bring additional happiness to your life, not your only happiness. You sound like a somewhat depressed person. Having a lack of friends is not healthy. I understand how your birds make you feel and that's marvelous, but they can't replace humans for companionship. Please, if you believe what I've said is true, talk with your doctor, many people suffer from depression, getting help will only help you to appreciate them even more and others as well.
2006-12-25 02:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definite. Now which you're 21 you have some freedom (i desire) to define your self and positioned some distance between your self and your loved ones. It seems such as you havent had the terrific start up in existence and you will could artwork no longer uncomplicated to conquer those damaging aspects on your upbringing even nonetheless that is carried out. you're a individual with your own thoughts controling your own behaviour and you have your own existence to stay. in actuality you're able to even turn those damaging aspects to reward because you have learnt lots from being uncovered to damaging behaviour. you have learnt the end results of behaving that way and the outcomes it could have on human beings. you will in all threat have self-properly worth or lack of self belief themes by way of way your mothers and dads have dealt with you yet youve already carried out some artwork on that your self. basically stay sturdy and desperate and attempt to construct up a help community of pals. sturdy success.
2016-10-28 07:11:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pets do help us to feel better, but if you come from a loving and supportive family you need to investigate why you prefer the birds to your family.
2006-12-24 03:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by LORI P 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no your not insane, maybe your family is so thats why you love your birds sooo much, and you can also share anything with your birds, and they won't tell a soul.
2006-12-24 03:22:42 · answer #7 · answered by daniellelee10 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really do think thats a normal thing- im very attached to my animals! Not as much as you, but close- And i mean please i would take ANY animal over the Human-animal! =D
2006-12-24 13:27:44 · answer #8 · answered by Grey_Sweater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone. Many people feel closer to their animals than they do to their families and other counterparts.
2006-12-24 03:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by Veneta T 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think that your pets should be put up there just like your family members are. for they did not ask you to take them in and feed them.
2006-12-25 13:44:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋