my boyfriend broke up with me in august but he barely started replying to my emails about 1 month ago. he read all the emails i sent him from july about how much feelings i had 4 him but he doesn't understand that was from a LONG time ago. i already have a new b/f. should i send him a happy holidays email or is that 2 much? (he's the one who called me and was like sorry sorry sorry i did not know how to check my emails so please forgive me not meaning that he wanted me back though!
2006-12-24 03:02:48 · 18 answers · asked by some_girl_who's_lonely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its x-mass it would be nice to send him one evan if he doesnt like you. you do want some one to be happy on x-mass
i know i would want a card from my friends and family to cheer me up. just because you two are broken up doesnt mean you cant spred x-mass cheer ♥
2006-12-24 03:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are trying to do -- it's all in the spirit of the holidays -- it's a great time to let bygones be bygones. But as the others said, you don't owe him anything. He should e-mail YOU happy holidays. That's my two cents. He's the one who stopped replying to the e-mails. But he's a guy, he won't say "Happy Holidays!" to an ex....so that'sa bout it. Just move on and focus on your great new guy. I know there are still hurt feelings from the last relationship, but just look forward to 2007 and all the new good times you will have.
2006-12-24 03:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. between the main serious issues in a reliable relationship is have faith. those photos are from 3 years in the past, why could that even subject you? You married her that's in basic terms some ex boyfriend, its trivial. all people has a prior and suggestions good or undesirable comprise it. some jealousy is time-honored, a lot of people discover it flattering yet extreme and irrational jealousy isn't very alluring...
2016-10-18 22:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't reply. Let this one die it's own natural death. You've moved on - no need to go revisit a painful chapter in your life. We have a way of remembering things inaccurately - as better than they really were. If you struck up any kind of relationship (even a "just friends" one) it wouldn't be the way you remember it. There was a REASON you broke up in the first place. So just let it go.....
2006-12-24 03:07:05 · answer #4 · answered by Poopy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't send an automatic card. instead, send him an email from you personally. from your email account directly. and include a "Merry Christmas" greetings picture or so.
now in that email, make sure you explain to him (subtly) that it was Okay that he didn't check those emails you sent FIVE months ago, 'cause now you're over it completely and enjoying life with your new b/f. and wish him happiness in his life too :)
2006-12-24 03:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by Maximus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only an email! Sure just drop him a line and wish him a Merry Christmas, you could hardly offend him
2006-12-24 03:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by the_big_v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you could send him a happy holidays card but nothing more than that because he will think you want him back.
2006-12-24 03:09:04 · answer #7 · answered by Savannah H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't 2 boys better than 1?
2006-12-24 04:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope..you have moved on..now really move on and ignore him..Pay attention to what you have in front of you.
2006-12-24 03:05:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him completely.. you've moved on.
2006-12-24 03:06:26 · answer #10 · answered by Sir J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋