my boyfriend called me a skank just because i was pissed off that he was moving.. who was wrong?

Answer 1

F him off..il treat you good baybeh ;]

Answer 2

skank: Derogatory term for a (usually younger) female, implying trashiness or tackiness, lower-class status, poor hygiene, flakiness, and a scrawny, pockmarked sort of ugliness. May also imply promiscuity, but not necessarily. Can apply to any race, but most commonly used to describe white trash.

you did not give your economic or hygenic status and it seems the point here is the move. You cannot be a "skank" just for being angry or sad. So if he called you a skank for that reason alone then he was in error. You are not a skank in this situation.

Answer 3

He was dump him before he dumps you he isnt worth it he called u a skank for goodness sakes you think thats the kind of person you can see yourself and if u want kids later in life why with him he called u a skank and if u want kids but not with him and dont see u getting married to him why are u with him if it wont b long term then y are u with him ?? He called u a skank dont let him of the hook for that he is a dumb jerk u were just upset that he was moving..........!!!

Answer 4

You don't give much detail. Why is he moving? work, school, just because? It could be that you were being unreasonable. Even if that's so, I don't think calling you a skank was great response on his part. Is this the way he deals with every argument? Maybe this move is a blessing in disguise!

Answer 5

Both of you. If he is moving because he has to and you love him then try to understand why he has to go. If he is going just because then you have a right to be mad. Now for calling you a skank that was just plain uncalled for and he sure make that up to you.

Answer 6

Sounds like he has deeper issues that he needs to get resolved. Also inadequate communication skills. Your sadness and frustration that he is moving was merely manifesting itself as anger. Anyone with maturity would have recognized that and would have taken you lovingly in his arms and consoled you and reassured you that his feelings would be the same, he would just have to display it in different ways. Instead he called you a very insulting, degrading name that has no relevance to the current situation. This usually means that the person has no idea how to cope with your reaction or he wants to get rid of you so that when he moves he can start dating someone near him or he has unresolved feelings regarding something you did to him in the past. Keep your eyes open, protect your heart and value yourself more than this. If a man talks to you like that--walk away--The man of your dreams is out there, dont waste your heart on little boys.

Answer 7

ok your boyfriend dosent know the definition of "skank" a skank is a slutty whore and you getting mad at him for moving dosent make you a hoe ....your boyfriend needs a dictionary you should get him one for x-mas lol

btw:both of you are wrong ..he shouldnt have called you taht
and YOU need to understand

Answer 8

First, why were you pissed off? Hey, if he had to move, (job, whatever) If you gave him attitude, he still was not justified in calling you a name.

Sounds like both of you are ready to move on..

Answer 9

hmmm
well...he was cuz he called u a skank.....and..well....idk..****....
well how pissed off were u?
like really really really pissed off or just kinda mad cuz u didn't want him to leave? cuz if it was that one then he would be wrong but the other.both if u

Answer 10

you were wrong for getting pissed,i am sure he had a good reason for moving.

Answer 11

I dont know... are you a skank??