I live with two friends, and they are dating, the boy has been hitting on me and stuff, I don't know what to do? I mean I really like this guy and I have since long before he meet her. They get in to fights all the time, and I don't think they sure be together. I think sometime he doesn't want to date her. Anyway, he is hitting on and flirting with me and I really like him and know his taken and I don't know what to do. HELP? ANYONE!!
2006-12-24 01:05:28 · 9 answers · asked by LeoJames8-1-08 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How about giving him the "ride" of his life and letting him decide who he wants to be with.
2006-12-24 01:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well he might just be innocently flirting. So you can't base that he has the same feelings for you on that. But you should talk to him. ask him if this other girl really makes him happy and ask the girl if he really makes her happy. If they fight alot that doesnt mean thier relationship is on the rocks. If they don't make-up quickly or hold stuff against each other, that would be a sign that they really arent meant for each other. So just make sure you arent getting yourself in trouble by doing this!
Maybe once the guy knows you like him he might feel the same way!
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2006-12-24 09:12:54 · answer #2 · answered by briacass 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move out! You said that the three of you are friends? Then don't do this terrible thing. You said that you liked this guy long before he met her? Honey, now ain't the time to be makin' a move on the man now that he's with your best friend! Whether they should be together or not is none of your business. Also, you need to let her know what's been going on with him.
2006-12-24 09:45:18 · answer #3 · answered by The Overweight Lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even go there. It is shaky ground. You will end up losing a friendship (maybe even two). Just ask your self if this is worth risking one or maybe two friendships....There are other fish in the sea and sometimes it's better to keep fishing. Otherwise, your girlfriend may accuse you of being the reason of their breakup, whether it be true or not.
2006-12-24 09:52:18 · answer #4 · answered by onecrazypeach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys with out intension behave like this and give hope to girls. I am sure he may be innocent and don't mean to love you. Don't build up much hope and don't commit anything right now. Fighting with his GF is not a good reason to you to take him, every afair I show fighting at some level. I guess they will continue you would look some one don't have a GF
2006-12-24 09:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by smartcamal1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really willing to give up your friendship for a guy.Let me tell you something, there are alot of fishes in the sea.Meaning men are not running away they will still be around but good frends are hard to find.So think about what i'm saying.
2006-12-24 09:21:19 · answer #6 · answered by Aliyah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter whether you think they should be together. for now, he has chosen to be with her. if you give in to his flirting and advances, he gets the best of both worlds. he gets to have you on the side and still keep his girlfriend. do not disrespect yourself in this way. tell him that if he really wants to be with her you don't want to see him disrespect both her and you by hitting on you behind her back. if he wants to be with you, you DESERVE the respect of him breaking it off with her and telling her he wants to be with you. if he doesn't want to be with you, you DESERVE the respect of him not toying with your emotions. he sounds like a person who does not yet have the maturity to take responsibility for his feelings and actions. until he decides what he wants, he should have access to you ONLY as his friend.
2006-12-24 09:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by babycakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for now since he has a girlfriend, i don't advise you to flirt with him, but if you guys are good friends maybe you have a chance later on.
2006-12-24 09:08:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
find a boy who is 100 % alone
2006-12-24 09:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋