How do I control my strong sexual urges now that I'm not married?

Question

I'm a 30 year old guy, not married and does not even have a girlfriend. I have never had sex in my life. I really desire to have sexual intmacy with a lady but Im not married. What can I do to control my sexual desires?

Answer 1

Sexual energy is not meant to be brushed under the carpet, get yourself in situations where you will meet interesting girls and try to develop somethings with them

Answer 2

You have almost passed the 15 years of your life after puberty. Now your sex passion start to decline, You have handled the peak desire, between age of 20-25, so you can continue to be single. As usual get the help of your hand to drain the accumulated sex. If you don't put your hands for a week then your ----- will not ask for it. If you use it every day it will ask again and again.
Since you are 30 and no experience no girls will hire you.
If you really interested in finding a GF first get some experience by hiring call girls. @ the age of 30 I have F-ed 8 P-y, that much of experience is expected from you, without it don't waste your time in searching p-sy

Answer 3

I know what you are going thru. I am a 32 year old man and I am not married. I myself have trouble controlling my sexual urges and I desire an intimate relationship with a woman. I guess the only thing I can think of is to get involved in volunteer activities and a local church to keep yourself busy and not to dwell on your situation. I know it's hard, believe me I know, but the more things you surround yourself with that will keep your mind off of sexual desires. Then you will see yourself not thinking about it as much. then it becomes more barrable. Also try meeting people in singles groups at churches or other dating places. Maybe it's time to get active in the dating scene. I hope this helps, Merry Christmas and God bless you.

Answer 4

u should get married.i don't know abt ur religion n country,if u r from Asia then i can understand that the marriage is very complicated thing bcoz some customs makes it difficult.i know some pplz are facing the same problem like u.it is very difficult to stop natural desire to have sex .pplz who are doing this difficult work must be apreciated bcoz they are saving their virginity for their life partner. they want to get life partner but their sercumstances doesn't allow them.i hope u will find ur life partner soon .dont lose hope n keep urself strong.good luck.

Answer 5

hmm.. that sounds too extremely fanatic to me. oh well, i respect your personal beliefs.

But the world is too crowded with temptations. Unless if you live all by yourself in the middle of nowhere, you can potentially keep yourself away from suggestive stuffs and ultimately sexual contact with a woman.

Do you condemn masturbation? if not, then go for it immediately. that certainly saves you from having sex with a woman.

But, i guess what you truly mean is a clean virginity, free from malicious acts and thoughts. Then, a strong resillient will
is what it calls for. Otherwise, marry a woman ASAP. :)

Answer 6

you can go to las vegas and buy a prostitute, or u can do some online dating or even chatting to get to know the person better.

Answer 7

LMAO @ ced. OR . . . play and phuc until you drop. Why control it? You some kinda Religous Right Wacko or Republican or something?

Answer 8

Get a girlfriend - or rent a porno movie.

Answer 9

get married. after that you won't have to control them. you'll never have sex.

Answer 10

get sum toys man!