what can I tell her to make her realize how wrong it is to mess with me? Please help me with the perfect "trash talk" I can trow her...
2006-12-24 00:50:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the best revenge is to kill her with kindness. refuse to be a part of her game. she obviously already feels bad about herself. make her feel worse by being above it all, but this means you have to truly be above it. no talking about her behind her back or to her face. she's not worth your time or energy, so don't give her any of it. be happy with the things that are great in your life and the people who do care about you. show her through your actions that her ridiculous comment has no effect on you because you see it for what it is. just smile and walk away. you don't have to show her that it's wrong to mess with you, just show that you don't care.
2006-12-24 01:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by babycakes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say (and I can't tell) whether you are a boy or a girl. No matter - her remark was cruel and uncalled for. It doesn't take "guts" to call someone "ugly." It takes a VERY low self-esteem. NO ONE is Ugly - not even "Ugly Betty" on the new popular TV show. Her remark says FAR more about HER than it does about you. Ignore her remark. If SHE is running around calling others "ugly" she herself has a VERY poor self-image. By replying to her with more ugly words, you are just lowering yourSELF to her level of insecurity and cruelty. Put a BIG smile on your face next time you see her and say nothing but "Hi". You'll prove yourself to be the bigger person by FAR. Lovingly suggested by a great-grandmother who's been around long enough to see this work!
2006-12-24 01:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm no longer able to work out the % :( Ugh,I HATE while people try this,i understand precisely what you sense. do no longer subject approximately it,although! you will possibly determine that they are jealous of how he loves you,and that they base their relationships in basic terms on seems. i think of that they are frequently jealous considering you have an older boyfriend,however i in my opinion think of that for the period of this age the hollow is heavily too super. i understand you think of he's sweet and all that,yet i'm somewhat thinking why he's relationship you,and not somebody in his very own age team,that's amazingly peculiar. yet hi,once you're nevertheless mutually in a pair of years,i'm going to assert you will stick around for a looong time later on.
2016-10-18 22:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! I think you are on the wrong track. You want to get back at her. You need ti de-escalate this feuding you are having with her and control your anger and rage and desire for revenge. I assume you are a teen or just out of the teens. You should try to lose this attitude as soon as possible. Your silence and actions of ignoring her comments are the strongest possible actions you can take. This will take mature self-control, and I hope you will try it.
2006-12-24 00:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by janeinthecity_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to lower yourself to her level? She must be jealous of you. Besides, what is she doing checking out another chic anyways.....maybe deep down she wants you and is afraid you would reject her???Beauty comes from within and for her to say that she is not happy with herself so she has to make others feel bad to make herself feel good...that's sad.Tell her that she is so ugly that you can't tell her face from her azz! And then move on!!!!
2006-12-24 01:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did she call you ugly. is it your looks or your attitude. if it's not one of the two. move on and say **** it. only you know the truth about who you are. always hold your head up high with pride no matter people say about you. if you need an attitude ajustment, then work on that from within. otherwise, be the bigger person and leave that dumb **** alone.
2006-12-24 01:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by Lakenya P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off..she is no one you want to hang out with..Sounds like someone with a low self esteem...Next time she says that tell her atleast you can put on make-up..she is stuck with her personality or self worth..or whtatever...OR you can say...something like..atleast I don't need a magnafine glass to tell I have________ (fill in the blank). But do you really want to stoop that low?
2006-12-24 00:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that if she told you that your ugly she's just telling you that she's jealous of you and that she in return is the ugly one... You should let it go because life is too short for these types of things...
2006-12-24 18:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must really have a low self-esteem to say something as dumb as that. Tell her nothing and ignore her. It will show her that you are definitley the better person and that crap like that doesn't upset you, maybe she won't even say anything ever again to you.
2006-12-24 00:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by Pandy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whenever anyone has the nerve to tell me i am ugly i ask them if they ever looked into a mirror.
2006-12-24 01:03:52 · answer #10 · answered by Aliyah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋