Do I have to continue courting her? Am I not busted?

Question

A childhood friend of mine told me that she's afraid to fall in love with me because she doesn't want to risk our friendship. She told me "lets stay as friends, sorry if I didnt give you a chance". I told her it wouldn't affect our friendship whatever happens. What do you think about it? Can I pursue my feelings for her and court her?

Answer 1

she might mean what she said. I know that feeling of liking someone very much and at the same time being afraid if something happens between the two of you that your would risk your freindship.
i would say, just leave it as it is. If she is really into you, then she will come around.
Best of luck

Answer 2

That's her way of saying your a good friend, but she also thinks your to much of a panzie to be her man. Will she let you have crazy sex with her all night. Since your not going any further with her concentrate on just laying the pipe down on her. If she won't do that lose her as a friend. Guy and girls can't be friends. An if your one of the losers who think you can. Then you'll have a hard time with other girlfirends.

So right now the only thing your Friend is worth is a little piece of the pretty A*s. So starting banging away. Maybe she wants that from you too? Stop talking about love to her and get her in bed and teach her a few things. Stop being a Panzie and talking all this friends and love crap. Man up! and sack her

Answer 3

I think she's full of crap and says stuff like that so she won't hurt your feelings. At least she's being nice about it, which is more than a lot of girls would do. Leave it, go find some one else.

Answer 4

Naw ... you're phucked as a possible boyfriend. You will stay her friend.

Answer 5

there will be nothing wrong iwth your friendship if you two are true frnds, and care for each other.
It's just about understanding,

Answer 6

if she gives in & allow.

Answer 7

no, she doesn't seem interested so leave it alone