As I am sitting in the guest room typing on the computer!!!!!?

Question

I hear my Guy friend wich happens to be the owner of the beautiful home I live in ......I hear him wispering to his other guy friends and he is also mentioning my name and then these idiots start laughing cause he is also talking trash about the horrible food Ive cooked in the past,by the way this is all happening while I am preparing some dinner out of kindness of my heart,whats up with these guys are they shobinistic pigs or what?or am I just being a ***** ?

Answer 1

Well, you are the one that said the food you cooked was horrible. Cooking is not rocket science. Learn to cook better. Here is one tip, cooking while you are in a different room typing on a computer is a bad way to go about it! LOL

Sounds like my wife. When the smoke alarm goes off, she thinks that is how you know the food is done and you should get up off the couch from reading your book or watching TV and serve the mess.

Hope you like the nice free house you live in. Can't be a serious crime for you to do a little cooking to earn the rent...

Answer 2

Guys can be ... crude. It doesn't mean we don't care. It pretty much just means we can be crude. And, in his case, kind of stupid. Sometimes, you kind of have to treat us like kids. Really big, annoying kids. How would you treat a kid in this situation?

On the bright side, we do usually clean up pretty well and can behave ourselves when important things are on the line. You just may need to tell us that on occasion to make sure we don't screw up something important.

I would say change plans on dinner. Figure out something he really likes that is easy - say, hot dogs or something & set-up a buffet with all the fixing, make a big basket of fries & get some beer (or appropriate beverages). Put some game or a movie on the tv & have a 'big screen' event.

Then later you can tell him you changed plans because of what you heard and see how he reacts. Get an honest critique on the food & be better prepared for next time. It's about communication - and we, the guys, are not as good at it as we would like to think.

Always remember, relationships should be about give and take. Let him know you'll work on dinner, if he'll work on ....

Answer 3

ok, dudette. he's no longer your brother, father or son. CANCEL HIS stay NOW!!!!! and don't sense responsible in any respect - u re no longer obligated to grant him with something despite if u had promised in the previous. reading your positioned up i will tell u the situation of his stay - despite if he's a o.k. mannered, quiet, clean guy he will not extra wholesome into your place cos u have Too intense standards and are available on - working from residing house? it will be a large number no longer in straightforward terms in his room, it will be a large number everywhere. and have u theory with regard to the rest room

Answer 4

Just dont make the food this year, and they can do without food since they want to be rude. If you are trying your best, and they are being rude, there is no point in encouraging their rudeness.

Answer 5

Birdie....you may be being paranoid, but confront them if you feel like it. Are you girl or boy?

The word you want by the way ...is,,,CHAUVANISTIC......so if you tackle them they won't be able to make further fun of you.

Good luck ...

Answer 6

Their being *%$holes, make them cook next time.

Answer 7

THATS NOT A BIG DEAL DUDE... TELL THEM TO COOK THEIR OWN FOOD... OR THEY CAN ORDER PIZZA...LOL!!
:) TAKE A CHILL PILL...:p
T.C...

Answer 8

cmon! u r getting emotional! u also do da same by making fun of one of their weakness! and laughing loudly hehehehe! dats it! wats da big deal abt it!

Answer 9

That's rude. Use a cookbook.

Answer 10

hahaha tell them to cook it themselves, then come to my home!