We've only been dating a short while and haven't done anything sexual. Should I try to hide it, or should I let her know its there, that she turns me on?
2006-12-24 00:29:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a life dude!
2006-12-24 00:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough one! Erections can occur naturally and instantaneously. If this happens, putting it on display may give her a bad idea about you. But, instead of trying to hide it, maybe just tell her with a smile that you're sorry. That lets her know that you're naturally turned on and not just a pervert showing her the goods..
2006-12-24 09:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by The Overweight Lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be such a dick. you try to hide it. i'm sure she can tell when you're hard..and if SHE wanted to do something about it for you then she would. dont put ideas into her head. try to have a real relationship first. you said youve only been dating for a short while..welll then you should talk and get to know each other very well first. theres a lot more to relationships than sex otherwise guys wouldnt be in relationships.
2006-12-24 08:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ just a girl ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a "lap bat" and beat the shyt out of that bad boy when he pops up again. If your gf asks what you are doing tell her you are "saving yourself for marriage". Then when she dumps you on the spot for being such a puss-ee and not phucing her brains out you can feel good about "be strong to remain a virgin"
2006-12-24 08:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to make it too obvious!
I m sure she will notice, but if you act a bit embarassed and shy about it, she will think you are so sweet... as opposed to thinking you are a dirty ol' man who just thinks with his ***.
Girls like to feel in control - she will let you know when she is ready to move on to the next level.
Good luck :o)
2006-12-24 08:35:21 · answer #5 · answered by confused_kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any woman worth her salt would be flattered, she probably already knows, continue to be a gentleman, she will give the hint when she is ready for some sensual wooing:)
2006-12-24 08:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hide that bad boy till the time is right.
2006-12-24 08:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by J.B.1972 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
having a hard-on is just a normal thing especially when you are new to a relationship,that means you are so much attracted to her,and i dont think its a big deal to her,make a joke about it with her, who knows you might get to first base right-away
2006-12-24 08:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing is to ask your gf she might be turned on too so just let her know.
2006-12-24 08:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by Louy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say u should tell her. u never know, she might wanted as bad as u do, most girls do. just let her know besides, if she is with u in the first place its cuz she likes u. good luck.
2006-12-24 08:33:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋