one (zach)asked me out then a week later he broke up with me. then this other guy (brendon) asked me out i said yes.about 2 weeks later i dumped him cause i thought that i still liked zach. i did. so i askesd zach out he said yes.then we went out for about a month and then he told me that e was half girl! so i had no clue awt to do. so after a days thought i figured out that he was probaly gay so i dumped him.he took him hard, he cryed! so now i like this other guy scott, but everyone says that he is out of my leauge.but i still like him.so i also like brendon a bit. but when i broke up with him i said we should be just friend.i made my friends now go and tell him that i take back what i said but nothing is working so now i told my friend to give him hints that i want him to ask me out and after a while just go up to him and say don't you get it? she wants you to ask her out.then there is also scott and brendon won't go to my school scott will.brendon is shoter scott is taller than me
2006-12-24 00:28:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure this is not the answer you want to hear but you are so not ready to have a boyfriend. It's not just you, so don't feel bad, but school is full of kids dating and having sex without the maturity and life experience to handle relationships like that. The fact that this is not obvious to you proves the point.
The week-long "relationships" breaking up, the indecision, having your friends giving "hints", shorter-taller whatever, you need to remove yourself from the peer-pressure and hormone pressure, put dating on hold at least until it becomes clearer to you and you don't have questions like these, and give yourself plenty of time to gain some more maturity.
This will pay off in less heartbreak, less chance of unplanned pregnancy, better self-esteem, and a better life. Do your schoolwork, read intelligent books, observe the behavior around you and remember that you can control your behavior. Give yourself time to choose a wise way to live.
2006-12-24 00:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by R 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
O.k. i know why your nick name is yoyo for your like one up and down over what guy to chose, how about None! or let the right guy come to you instead of you trying to find the right guy for it dosen't seem to be working all that well for you. trust me the right one will come along all in due time but when you try to rush things is when everything get's all yoyo' y and then nothing works out. Also don't be in such a rush to have a bf date severall guys or go on dates with them to where you can really figure out what yuo want in a bf and then go from there on finding, getting, and keeping yourself a good man.
2006-12-24 08:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by outlawprincess5321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like a soap opera.
Get yourself a new playmate for you do not sound like you are ready to be faithful to just one guy. You are confused on your decision making and stuck on making up your mind. Keep playing the field until the right one comes along. Be true to yourself and decide what exactly it is that you are looking for in a relationship. Is it just sex or a heart felt relationship for the long haul? Be careful on your decisions and stay strong.
2006-12-24 08:40:13 · answer #3 · answered by nodiggity_1357 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you trying to ask how you should handle your situation??? If you are I'm going to tell you this. Take your time. Don't be in a hurry to have a boyfriend. You are young and you have all of the time in the world. If a guy likes you then he will come to you. Don't ask guys out. They will come to you in time.
2006-12-24 08:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by audrey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you just need to leave the guys alone for a while...you don't have to have a boyfriend "right now".
2006-12-24 08:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by Danelle L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg...really? Is all that drama necessary? Just date them all till you find one you really like. When you find the one (which probably won't be any of them) hang out with that guy till he pisses you off.
2006-12-24 09:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by chikkinslayer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go apologize to zach. dont assume he's gay. he told you his biggest secret because he trusted you and you turned out to be a little witch and hate him for it.
2006-12-24 08:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by jacen_solo9 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need fresh meat.
2006-12-24 08:32:16 · answer #8 · answered by Grant C 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
get help, thanks for the points !!
2006-12-24 08:33:53 · answer #9 · answered by hardroader67 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋