iam a working girl in hindustan lever. once i had given my personal e -mail add. to my my company officials as our server was not working but my b/f don't believe on my he scholds me for doing this. pls help me out i love him a lot.how should i make him understand that i am not wrong. and as such no mails are coming it was only once that they needed my e-mail add. pls i not wrong .pls help me out from this problem.
2006-12-24 00:01:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him to go screw himself, whoever told him you were going to put up with him scolding you, lied to him.
2006-12-24 00:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope you know that relationship and friendship are build on TRUST. If he does not trust you he has to learn a lot in relationship. To make him understand that you are right just leave that issue for a while pretend that you are upset with him for making a mountain out of a mole. If he believes you he will just get over it in few days. And next time make sure if you do something different keep him updated or else he will have some more reason to fight with you. Normally guys expect little more importance then the girls do. Open relationship is where trust at first statement should be prevailing. I am sure you have not told him that you are asking this Q on the yahoo and once he knows that he will find a reason to fight. If he does not trust you he is not worth to be loved by you. And one more thing what it matters if your official mails come to your personal email? Are you telling everything that you do in the office? I am sure once he knows anything about that he will have few more reasons to fight. Please tell him and teach him to trust you, if you succeed he is your or he was never your!! Do not become so impulsive if a guy loves you he will start trusting you. Waste not that Love as it is scarce commodity in this world.
2006-12-24 09:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The base for love is Trust! If your boyfriend does not understand this he better quit, and its time you also know this, Love is understand, trust, and growth, your intentions were clear and good, your boyfriend has a problem with trusting you, think if over, YOur job is a greater part of your life, it is what defines you, how your deal with your job problems is your capacity and skill. He need not interfere on what happens on the job, and how you deal with it, remember you are two individuals with independent thinking, and in live two people grow in happiness, if it is like this now how are you going to live with him???? Do your really want to be treated this way??? You dont have to convince him at all, tell him he needs to grow up and deal with his feelings of doubt. This is surely not love, it is possessiveness, you are not a thing to be possessed, he has to understand this, you are a person, with all right to express yourself.
2006-12-24 19:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by thachu5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if this is true ALARM BELLS should be ringing. You are going to have a horrible life with this guy. Don’t take this lightly. A relationship without trust is like a building without a foundation; when it eventually falls down a lot of people are going to get hurt.
2006-12-24 09:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by the Tramp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another pathetic submissive type of Indian female. People like you are the reason why many guys still look down upon women and act like jerks..Grow up, be mentally strong and try to deserve some respect from us....
If the guy doesnt trust you tell him to buzz off and find yourself a better man.
2006-12-24 09:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by sudheesh s 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
neha how could u tolerate or love this guy who scolds u don't trust u n over all things Ur wrong
common grow up now Ur letting him rule on Ur life if u love him so much then say him his arrogant attitude is hurting u
well to be frank if i would have bf like urs i would prefer to live him if he wont care for my feelings D A so simple as that.
just tell him u loves him n cares for his feelings too
then ask him does he love u or not if yes then how cant he trust you because all relationships depends on two pillars love and respect for each others
happy Christmas
god bless you
2006-12-25 05:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by shabana o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's no mutual trust in a relationship, then this can cause similar problems in the future... Just think of that...
2006-12-24 08:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that if he is not convinced about your sincerity u r going to break with him and do it without any hesitation. if he is really your boy Friend he should understand, otherwise thank the stars for giving u this situation and be happy
2006-12-24 08:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by GOPALA KRISHNA M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat all u've to do is
whenever he says that y did u give ur id to other n all that stuff
just say "DONT U TRUST ME?? IF DA ANSWER IS NO THEN GET OUT OF MY LIFE....I DONT WANT MY BF TO ASK SUCH SILLY QUESTIONS!"
agar usme akal hogi to wo maan jayega...but agar wo akdu type ka hua to he will definitely leave u...usme bura lagne waali baat nahi hai
aapko khush hona chahiye bcoz aapne ek aise aadmi se chutkara paya hai jo aappe kabhi vishwaas hi nahi karta tha! jisne aapke pyaar ki kadar nahi ki!!
all da best
dont be afraid
go ahead!
after all ye aapki life ka sawal hai....
2006-12-24 09:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by Tw!NkLe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and create a another personal email id ,
gmail , yahoo , hotmail , reddiif , oh !!! they r flooded ... tell him that u are not going to use the earlier one for personal use .. and make that email outside ur office official ...
2006-12-28 05:25:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust is d pillar of trust.ask him straight forward tht is this little trust he has on u. if he still doent trust u, ur wise enough 2 take a decision
2006-12-24 08:11:43 · answer #11 · answered by Muskaan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋