I met her during a business trip in another country. I had no other expectations from asking her to go on a friendly date to dinner, movie, and just a walk in the shopping mall. More came from that night. Well, we both fell for each other and now, I am back at home. My problem? I am already in a relationship, but I am also in love with her.
2006-12-23 22:32:19 · 19 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You fell for the new attention. Not her. Really, how often are you going to see the other girl? Every week, year, lifetime?
Something's broken in your current relationship to the point where any outside attention towards you turns you on. Either break it off with your current or the other girl overseas. I say, get more information about the new girl before you make that step. It may be just lust rearing it's ugly head.
2006-12-23 22:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by L. F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are already in a relationship, you should not be asking someone else on a friendly date to dinner, movie, and a walk in the shopping mall. If you were serious about the woman back home, you would not have done it. Since you're not serious, drop the one and focus on the new girl, until you meet someone else new on your next trip. Then be prepared to repeat the process until you grow up.
2006-12-23 22:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by Curious1usa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL
You had to go and be the ham between the sandwich .. now look whats happened
You cant have both, so you need to make a decision and quick smart .. because you are deceiving them both .. remember .. Karma .. You dont want that coming back on you.
You need to end it with one of them .. choose .. who do you want more? Who do you have stronger feelings for?
Was the 'other' woman just LUST & FLING? Could you be in LUST with her and NOT love?
Was it a mistake? Do you love your current partner? What made you do it?
Were you having probs? Are you drifting away? Can you relationship be salvaged or better yet, do you want it to be?
Its all tempting to go with the 'other' person because its new and exciting, but what happens when that fizzles?
You need to think long and hard and end it with someone.
Good Luck ..
ps: keep Mr Willy in your pants next time LOL
2006-12-23 22:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by DeeDee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a boob & beat around the issue.
Make your choice, & pursue her. Tell the other the truth & don't stretch it out.
Otherwise, you'll be back on here asking us if you can move in with us because you screwed up & now both of them hate your guts...... and your living on the streets.
Be a man. Or woman. And do the right thing.
GOOD LORD, DO WE NEED TO BURP YOU TOO.
2006-12-23 22:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by ccchevydude 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you did not lie to her right? you just kept quiet? tell her straight now you are in a relationship and wait for her reply. let your relationship with your gf be stronger :) this other girls are just along the way, but the main way is your present gf, give her/make her your priority relationship. love is a decision not an emotion :)
2006-12-23 22:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by blue violet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put the relationship behind since you are back home. Be good to your wife and remember that she is the one you loved and chose to marry.
2006-12-23 22:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by burr burr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... you constructive stirred something up, Charli. you have have been given a combat on your palms now. I say, if she will't kindly step decrease back and take a quantity, then she ain't well worth it in any case.
2016-11-23 14:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by whittenberg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm..... she lives in another country. I may be going out on a limb here, but I don't think it's going to work with her. So just forget about it, your not in love with her anyways, you barely know her and you want to sleep with her.
Look, you got away (so far) with cheating on your current girlfriend. be happy with what you've got, and if you can't, level with your GF, stop leading her on, and end it.
2006-12-23 22:39:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What has happened has happened. Next time she invites you out tell her as much as you would love to, u are busy as it is your partner's birthday and she is expecting you
2006-12-23 22:41:46 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, you can't wear 2 pairs of shoes at the same time. you need to understand your level of comittment in your current relationship... don't throw it all away just because you think someone new is better... which most of the time she or he isn't, just that you are feeling lonely that's all
2006-12-23 22:47:26 · answer #10 · answered by pee_bag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋