I went out last nite with my friends and bumped into my ex and his brother. My ex kept telling me how much he missed me and how wonderful i am!! (he dumped me cuz i was paranoid cuz he had come home with scratches on his back) His ex before me told me in front of him that my suspicions, were rite he had cheated on me!! By the end of the nite, me n his bruv were hittin it off!! and ended up back at mine! stuff happened and he left this morning. Thing is i thought i would feel great bout it, but i have a boyfriend who works off shore, i ent heard from him since he left. i been with him 2 weeks and hes now offshore for 2 months, I feel like such a cow.....and am hating myself. Not because of my ex but my new boyfriend, what do i do for the best now???
2006-12-23 22:28:19 · 25 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my ex duz not know bout me and his bruv!!
2006-12-23 22:29:45 · update #1
abreviations ppl!!!
2006-12-23 22:57:10 · update #2
oh dear ..
hmm well you have only been with him for 2 weeks ...
maybe you arent ready to settle with this new guy if someone else caught your eye?
personally, i wouldnt say a thing - i know this sounds bad but what he doesnt know ... wont hurt him (dont ever tell him)
see what happens when he comes back
dont feel bad .. we ALL make mistakes and yes .. sometimes for revenge.
I believe, if its meant to happen, it will
If you're meant to be together, it will happen.
Cheer up and put it out of your mind and concentrate on the future
Merry Christmas darlz
2006-12-23 22:33:07 · answer #1 · answered by DeeDee 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For goodness sake you have only been dating the new guy for 2 weeks and you are not going to be seeing him for two months - have you actually agreed not to see anyone else while he is away? By the time he comes back either you/he/orboth of you might not want to see each other anymore anyway. Is uggest that you learn to communicate more honestly and openly with people you date , it will save alot of confusion and hard feeling in the long run.
2006-12-24 02:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its early days in ur relationship! dont worry about wot happened, just if u feel serious about ur new guy n want things 2 work be more careful un future!!! ur boyfriend being away so soon in2 the relationship isnt a good thing, its hard 2 ajust! not bein able 2 pick up the phone when u need 2 talk 2 someone!!
2006-12-23 22:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by foz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could end at no longer something to get REVENGE on somebody i actually relatively HATED. I ain't the vindictive type the two. i'm basically a quiet lady that has a verry evil section. Psh. Sexual relationship with Heath Ledger? he's mine. *Bares fangs* naw basically kidding. do exactly each and each of the evil you are able to inflict upon her till she's bored to death and is basically too scared to even set her revenge upon you... xxx Revenge is a dish appropriate served chilly.
2016-10-05 23:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, Maid Angela is right. Ppl do dumb things, I understand, so I'm not judging. But aren't you as bad as your ex now? A cheater. Plus...with his bro? What kind of brother is he? And it was purely revenge on your part, no? Were you even attracted to the bro? If you were, wouldn't you have known you liked him before?
As far as coming clean to the BF, that's a toughie. Perhaps you should?
2006-12-24 00:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg what r u 13?
do u actually wanna go out with ne one or do u want a rep for walking the streets!
2 weeks doesnt really count as a boyfriend, unless your in primary school.
just get a grip
2006-12-23 23:53:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need some time to yourself you said your ex cheated on u so u go and fool around on your bf with your exs brother so now who cheated you need to face what you did and if you really love this off shore gut quit cheating and just be real thats a major problem ppl need to be real and not fake cheating is cheating no matter how you sugar coat it you did wrong now u need to set things right and quit cheating on yourself and your off shore bf
2006-12-23 22:37:39 · answer #7 · answered by sudzy1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is like the taste of last week's wine or like the male orgasm, when it is over you wonder whether it was worth the effort.
2006-12-23 23:48:01 · answer #8 · answered by iscan12345 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gave a guy scratches for a laugh we never did it, do u have proof other than his ex's say so that he cheated?
2006-12-24 04:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by charlotte e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to relax and think with a calm mind whether wat happened last nite occured just becoz u want revenge and becoz u were missing some physical needs and it just occured at the moment. you hv to think whether u really love this guy (ur ex's bro) or ur bf. and choose between.
2006-12-23 22:39:25 · answer #10 · answered by luvingfire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋