Do People on Here Real Understanding Others?? I don't think so?

Question

Isn't it funny how questions asked about depression, suicide, cutting oneself people just go off and think they know it all telling you that it isn't right and how you should feel and handle it ...

Do they know how it feels to have so much pain ... so much sadness inside with no way to get it out that we cut to release what we feel... We don't care about scars, they will be there to remind us later of what we went through in the past and how we have grown and become a better person...

Do you all even know that all we need is a hug and to be told it is ok ... to have someone listen, care and understand without all the BS???

Answer 1

unless the person who is answering the questions in this category is professionally qualified ,other people give ridiculous answers which may precipitate the decease of the person who asked questions with a serious thought that he/she could get correct answer.another thing is if any person who has authority gives scientific reply, the questioner instead of selecting it as the best answer, put them to voting and in voting, the brute majority select answers given by quacks and people who have no knowledge of psychiatry.

Answer 2

I'm with you, but there are some people out there who do care and are trying to help. I've been through all that so I'm not just some random person who doesn't know what she's talking about. It is really annoying though when you get the jerks who just think everyone should suck it up. But keep in mind too that some people want to help and they may not have experienced depression or suicide or any of those things but they still are at least making an effort to help so you have to give them credit for that. For some people just the fact that someone actually answered their question is probably a little comforting.

Answer 3

Does anyone ever really understand someone else?

I dont think anyone who has never been depressed can give advice or support. They think it means being a bit sad or down and really cannot understand how it takes over your life, consumes your life.

Cutting yourself is a survival / coping thing. Some people do get help and find other ways.
Some people on here do care about others, about you.

It is a shame that when people are strong they cannot take a little of other people's pain and just bear it for them for a while. Wouldn't that be nice, if we could do that for others?
If I could I would do that. Just for an hour or so to give you a break.
As it is, a virtual hug is all I can offer.

:-)

Answer 4

some of us have had more pain than you will ever realise,and we can help others by telling them something of our lives,or sometimes we might not wish to say about our lives but tell you we understand which should then tell you that maybe we understand as we might have suffered the same or similar,,,we can only try to help,,as some of us really do care for others ,we are a careing creature,we cry at sad films ,,,,thats us showing we are careing ,as we have been affected by what we have seen or heard ,,,,we all know of pain of some sort ,it might not be the same as your pain ,but can hurt us just as much ,,,,and most of us careing people would take your pain away if we new how to ,,,we dont get enjoyment from someone suffereing ,,,we try and give you a little bit of our hearts ,try to reach you ,on a level where we might have helped you ,if only just a little bit ,,if it makes you feel just a tiny bit better then we have to feel prooud to have helped you ,as thats what humans do ,we help and care for each other,,,,,at least most of us do merry christmas ,and try and have a new happy year ,put the old one behind you ,,,,at least the bad bits ,,,,good luck

Answer 5

I don't know about anyone else here, but what I think and I feel. I have tried suicide myself, three times to be exact. And yes I do know how it feels to have all that pain inside, and no way to get it out. But I'm not going to sit here and tell you it is okay to cut and try to committ suicide. If I had gone that route, I would not have four beautiful grown kids now and 8 beautiful grandkids. Also I'm not going to tell you about the results of cutting and suicide as you already know, but I am going to say to GET HELP! Quit sitting on the "pity pot" and hurting other people just so you can feel better. There are so many positive ways of helping yourself, I wish I'd had those options when I was younger, and the knowledge and understanding that people have today about suicide and cutting.
There are wonderful counselors out there an doctors that are more then willing to help you with your problem, but you have to be willing to help yourself and want to get better, and if you don't want to, then you are taking up their time and wasting their time, ours too, by coming on this forum and making sarcastic remarks like you started out with. So if you want understanding, then get help an ask for help. There is also medication that can help you, if you want to help yourself to get better.

Answer 6

yes.....I know it!!!People in this field as I have already seen are some of them facing mental problems.So I am sure they know!!It was their way to answer.I once used to scream for help but people could not understand wht I felt and I was as angry as you.I still don't know why they were and are so indifferent.Perhaps not everyone deals with life the same way you do.So you shouldn't allways expect for the answer you would like to hear.The answers given by them for others could be as well answers for their own problems because that is how they think they can handle their problems.So please don't judge people so hard not because it is not allowed but because it is sometimes useless when all they can give u is this little.But little by little can one day fill your emotional emptiness.Believe me tht only u care for the scars-problems tht much so as to think that it's a way of showing others how bad you feel.Because they will get it for a while but you will have scars for ever and none will repair all the damage you've done to yourself.If it's possible calm down and find a healthier way to show your pain.If you have patience you will one day be understood.Shout,scream,cry but don't make yourself bleed.
MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!

Answer 7

Hello, before continue with my answer I need to let you know that Im not a Dr.

I dont know about the others... but when I answer a question here, its not just for fun or to pass the time, Its because I really want to help. A couple of weeks ago, I was really depressed so I make a Question and alot of people answer me trying to help (probably no one was a Dr. but like you said, sometimes people just need a Hug). So I belive there's a lot of good people who really cares about the others and probably they are not Drs or specialist's but they really care about the person who open her/his heart and look for help here. So the answer its Yes, PLEOPLE REALLY UNDERSTANDS PEOPLE, because there still love and goodwill in the world.

Answer 8

1st u have been given 2 genuine roots and pronounced those are the only genuine roots whilst the equation is of 5th degree , which potential there could be 5 thoughts the two a million genuine & 4 complicated 3 genuine & 2 complicated 5 genuine so there could be a minimum of a third genuine answer i chanced on it , it somewhat is 4.5 as u have been given 2 root ?3 & -?3 we can divide -2x^5 + 5x^4+ 34x^3 - 30x^2- 84x +40 5 via x^2 -3 =-2x^3 +5x^2 +28x-15 & I have been given the thrid genuine that's -3 if you desire to divide the proceed to be via x-3 (-2x^3 +5x^2 +28x-40 5) /(2x/9) = -2x^2 +11x -5 so positioned it =0 -2x^2 +11x -5=0 2x^2-11x+5 =0 x= [11 +/- ?(121-40)] /4 = [11+/- 9]/4 x = (11+9)/4 =20/4=5 or x=(11-9)/4 = 0.5 so there are surely 5 genuine thoughts ?3 , - ?3 , -3 , 5 , 0.5 -------------- Please overview the equation u could typed it wrongly

Answer 9

Yes, I think there are some on here that do understand and I know that I am one who would willingly give you a very meaningful hug--a real hug--I love hugs--I love getting them and I love giving them. The human touch is so precious. I am reaching out to you now to give you that hug. Seriously. Peace. (If you need someone to talk to--e-mail me)

Answer 10

Hi,

I wouldn't say that. I agree with you regarding others' opinions - but you have to sift through the bs answers to find the few that have something to say - it comes with the territory. Sad but true.

Hey, write me if you want ....


Take care,

-Robert

Answer 11

some of the people here might have some understanding of the case. that's why they advise them to seek help. not through the web. not so much space and time. they have to see someone in person to help them.