I made it a crazy confusing mess and I think he only wants to be friends with me but I falling for him and I love another guy too so i am a bit confused so I don't know how to do because i am missing this other guy terribly he is in the military (overseas in Asia & I am working in Asia now) And when he returned to his base he didn't tell me so don't know where he is or when he can go home again..so confused...
2006-12-23 21:58:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like you have no idea what love truely is... you just know what I need it now means...
2006-12-23 22:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by crimson_carnage 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with dude,
The problem here isn't love, it's emotional immaturity.
If you love the guy that is in the military, then you know what you have to do. Forget about this other guy. If you don't love the military fella, then you have to take a step back, reevaluate your feelings for both of them and come up with a solution on your own. We can't help you, because a confusing mess can be anything, you're going to have to substansiate that a bit.
2006-12-23 22:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by Alberta Sunrise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seemed to me beyond confusion but i'll try my best to tell you what i've observed. first of all you seem to be fallin for a guy who you think only wants to be friends with you but you're in love with another, well dear you might end up falling completely in love with the guy youre falling for or it might just be a physical attraction maybe if you get the chance to sleep with himthose feelings might go away but concerning the guy you're actually in love with maybe you are in love with him or just extremely fond of him. i'd suggest you don't do anything stupid and just wait for a while and see how you feel about both guys and about him not telling you he returned to his base maybe he thought it was'nt important, you have to remember that guys and girls often think differently about somethings so just don't pressure yourself and try not to make rash decisions that you might regret in the future think about this well take some time to analyse your situation and what would be the best decision to make thats all i can tell you for now. try and prevent having to much drama in your life ok. good luck
2006-12-23 22:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lil Precious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come clean to the other guy i dun think that's fair for any human being, When you really love someone what you are saying can't even be possible, relax and take it easy just enjoy Ur time and Ur soul mate will walk in anytime.
2006-12-23 22:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by Emmortal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blough blugh blaaah?! what are you saying? you need to calm down grow up a lot and realize what love is you really dont "love" either of them. You just must realize it
u are obviously young and mislead and deeply confused
2006-12-23 22:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st are you sure they are interested in you? if so write both of their names on the same piece of paper. draw a line down the middle right the qualities they both have and see who has more of what your looking for. Good Luck!
2006-12-23 22:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by Shampaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much drama guys hate that.
2006-12-23 22:01:00 · answer #7 · answered by insomniman1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋