2006-12-23 18:52:37 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, she will gain it all back, plus more.
2006-12-23 18:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is a really tough one. I am a small size but have to watch my weight through diet and exercise. I definitely look better now that I am smaller and must admit get a lot more attention than when I was bigger. Men are very visual beings and if you are or were extremely overweight that might be a deal breaker for a lot of men. For most people, sexual attraction is where things first begin. If men who previously rejected you appear to be only focused on your weight loss or your appearance, I'd be pretty reluctant to go out with them. If they are taking an extra look though and appear to be connected with you on other levels maybe give them, and yourself, a chance. The bottom line though is that you are loosing weight for yourself not for a man, so I am sure you'll be able to figure this out.
2016-05-23 03:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol! kinda... if the guy didnt even talk 2 her as a friend then thats kinda messed up if he talks 2 her after she lost weight. he could ask her out, but she would either just make him be head over heels 4 her then dump him so he can c how she felt 2 b rejected or she is blind because she went with him...all in all the guy either wont like her & will dump her or she will just dump him unless he apologises.
2006-12-23 19:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by PinkLove6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. That man is shallow. There should be more than just looks to a person. Although it would be funny for that woman to say yes and then stand him up and say he's too ugly or fat. Immature yes, but funny still.
2006-12-23 18:56:39 · answer #4 · answered by williamcoulson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that is wrong. That person who rejected her(probably you) is very materialistic and would end the relationship if she gained it back despite the fact that you might eventually fall in love with her or be in love with her but break up with her because of a petty reason.
2006-12-23 20:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by airmcnair06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No the man should not ask her out coz he rejected her when she was fat and now that she has reformed herself its showing disrespect to her.
2006-12-23 18:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by tiya_ahuja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she knows you rejected her because she was fat then, no dont ask her out...she'll laugh in your face.
if she didnt know that that was the reason then yeah, you can ask her out. just, if your friends know that you rejected her because she was fat, youll have to find some way to keep it under wraps.
by the way, thats pretty shallow of you.
2006-12-23 19:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by beb27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with him asking, but if SHE knows what is good for her, under the circumstances, she should probably refuse the asking, since he was clearly after the body and not after the mind or the soul.
2006-12-23 18:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by G A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. If she changed what it was that he didn't like, then he's perfectly "in the right" to ask her out.
Of course, she'd be an idiot to accept such a shallow guy, but that's for them to sort out.
2006-12-23 18:55:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. It wouldn't be right. This weight thing seems to be a good way to sort out the losers if you ask me.
2006-12-23 18:59:33 · answer #10 · answered by Gnome 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope, she only liked him when she was fat. Now that she's slim, you think she'd hang around a loser like him?
2006-12-23 18:59:25 · answer #11 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋