me and my bestfriend like the same guy. and the thing is i know its like chick over ***** and stuff but she always likes the same guy as me! and this time i like this guy and i think he likes me too. but i dont want to hurt my friends feeling but if i just back off and let her get with him shes not gonna treat him right. before she got with a guy that i also liked but she didnt act like they were together she didnt even want to hug him! ahh i dont know what to do i hella like this guy
2006-12-23 18:48:42 · 16 answers · asked by nonamer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is a question of who liked him first and really who he likes.
2006-12-23 18:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by Stephie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You both need to let him go and move on. If you dont and she ends up with him then she will tell you everything and what not you will get hurt feelings and then you guys will more then likely loose a friendship over him. same goes if you go out with him,.. One way or the other there will be jealousy..
2016-05-23 03:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you and your best friend have a mature friendship where you can talk about things like that. Tell her you sincerely like this guy , etc.... Just make sure you actually peruse the guy and not play games... Show your best friend you really want the guy.. and hopefully he'll treat you right!
2006-12-23 18:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by then NATE says 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she always like the same guy you do, she's not a friend. She likes the competition. Get a new friend.
2006-12-23 18:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her all is fair on love and war, and go for him. there are plenty other guys out there for her, and if she seems interested just because you are that is lame. you girls seem to be good enough friends to deal with whatever happens after you get with him, since she already has been with a guy you previously liked.
good luck
2006-12-23 18:55:58 · answer #5 · answered by lolabird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did she care about your feelings with the last guy? come on you like this guy go get him, remember people stab you in the back a true friend will stab you in the front.
2006-12-23 18:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by Dustin C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the girlfriend of yours. Sounds like she enjoys spoiling things for you. Good Luck! :)
2006-12-23 18:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like just forget the whole thing and like get on with like your homework and stuff.
2006-12-23 18:52:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you backed off the last guy and she snagged him, its your turn.
chicks over ***** doesnt mean you back off and she takes him, it means you both back off unless you tell her that its okay for her to go after him.
2006-12-23 18:54:22 · answer #9 · answered by beb27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey leave it up to him let him decide who he wants to be with. If he picks you than tell your friend it wasn't your decision it was his.
2006-12-23 18:53:10 · answer #10 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋