So as you may know I've been going on and on about this guy and we finally talked...blah blah blah...and he has a girlfriend and I failed to mention a 4 month old baby...thye've been together for a year and he says its not serious unless a ring is involved. I want to cut him loose before I catch feelings but then again I don't. I've been cheated on before and I know how it feels and I would never want anyone else to feel that way, but I am so tired of playing by the rules. I just want to make the right decision...what to do?
2006-12-23 18:45:32 · 11 answers · asked by violet83 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just leave him alone. I've heard "its not that serious" before, but then he always goes back to her. Find someone that doesn't have so much excess baggage, because thats alot.
2006-12-23 19:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by ms ambitious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl...your stronger then that. If your heart and gut are screaming no..then get out of it. He obviously isn't respectful to his relationship....or even take pride in his kid... Play it safe..follow your instincts. Your better then that...and by your question you already know what you should do...act on it. You won't regret it...he will end up finding another chick to sleep around with.
2006-12-24 02:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by * Kittles * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enough, it is time to face your self and figure out what you are about.
Relationships are only as complicated as you make them. Yes it is you and no one else that is creating this mad mess you are in. It is you that has to figure out what you really want.
2006-12-24 02:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear. dont go gettin' caught up w/ all that mess. Find a nice, established man who will treat you right. this guy already has major baggage. I say walk.
2006-12-24 02:48:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if oyu feel you like him play the game the same way he is doing it but a word of caution dont WASTE YOUR TIME there could be someone out there perfect for you
2006-12-24 02:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by msee mzii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him! Stay away from men that are with other woman.
2006-12-24 02:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its Depend On Us ........ Relation Maintain Cool Mind......Be a Cool....!!!
2006-12-24 02:49:54 · answer #7 · answered by anilexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to treat other people as you would have them treat you.
2006-12-24 02:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Right 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just listen to what your heart tells
2006-12-24 03:07:06 · answer #9 · answered by chris t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay far far far away from that guy!
2006-12-24 02:48:16 · answer #10 · answered by painfully_average 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋