2006-12-23 18:44:03 · 25 answers · asked by Garin M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, she's just trying to make you jealous and get a reaction out of you.
2006-12-23 18:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by ms ambitious 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My guess is that you are asking this because it honestly hurt. I think it would have really bugged me as well. You know, if she does it again, I'd say, "Look, I think it's natural for guys and girls in committed relationships to still find other people attractive. After all, we are human and not blind. I appreciate the fact that you feel comfortable enough around me that you can tell me when you think other guys are hot, but it sort of gives me the creeps. Obviously, you know that I notice other girls. It doesn't mean that I want to be with them, but what's the point in telling you? Is there some reason why you are telling me this?"
See what she says. It's possible she does not even realize the impact of what she is saying. There's likely a logical reason behind what's going on here.
2006-12-23 18:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by Elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As lame as this is going to sound. There is no definitive answer. If it upsets you, talk to you're girlfriend about it and tell her it makes you uncomfortable. And hopefully she'll understand.
But then again she could take the escape route and call you insecure...
So I mean, you see no definitive answer... If you two are in the kind of relationship where you can talk like how I mentioned in the first place.. Then that would be great... But I mean, bleh just take those kinds of comments from her with a grain of salt.. She's in the relationship with you, not that "hot" guy...
2006-12-23 18:50:47 · answer #3 · answered by then NATE says 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do it all of the time with that guy who plays Greg on "CSI" (as you can see, I'm actually a dork), but my boyfriend and I are to a point where he knows that a) I am joking and b) he really doesn't have anything to worry about.
Basically...if you're actually feeling insecure about something like this, you need to open up some lines of communication and maybe figure out why she keeps saying that other guys are hot.
2006-12-23 18:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Jane 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If all she is doing is telling you, then I don't see what the drama is. Just because she's your girlfriend, it doesn't mean she's dead to the world around her. The fact is, if she think another guy is hot, and she's still with you, then obviously you're the better choice...
On the other hand, if she says he's hot and then runs over to flash her boobs at him, you might want to re-think your relationship...
2006-12-23 18:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by keltarr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Think about it, have you ever walked with your girlfriend and seen a nice looking girl walk by you? Just because your girl finds another guy attractive doesn't mean that she likes him. If she is with you its because she likes YOU and is also attracted to YOU. If it gets to the point where it bothers you a lot, talk to her about it.
2006-12-23 18:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jocey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think it's wrong. It is just an opinion after all. Im sure that you think other girls/women are hot. You are the one that she is with so you shouldn't worry too much about it. It just means she is comfortable in your relationship and she trusts you.
2006-12-23 18:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by williamcoulson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if she is with you just do this tell your girlfriend that another girls is hot in front of her
2006-12-23 19:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by chris t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I think so. It's disrespectful to you. Now to appreciate a well dressed or muscular body is different. But not saying the person is hot. It would have me wonder where her head is really at.
2006-12-23 18:47:58 · answer #9 · answered by cripesokay2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better than her staying quiet about it and messing around with the guy behind your back.
At least she's being honest with you.
Start pointing out hot women in front of her and see if she likes it
2006-12-23 18:46:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Do you ever say that another girl is pretty in front of her? You should be more confident in yourself. Self-confidence and being able to hear that someone else is attractive is very sexy.
2006-12-23 18:46:14 · answer #11 · answered by bashnick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋