I met him over the summer, but nothing happened between us. Then he went back home, which is across the state from me, so we talked on messenger. We both know we really like eachother a REALLY lot, and he is going to try to come here to see me for New Years Eve.
The thing is, I've never gone past just kissing a guy, and I know this guy wants to go farther than that, and so do I, but I'm really nervous, and I don't know how to show it.
Is there anything that I could do to make him get the hint and get him to make the first move? I am just not experienced at all.
Just all in all HELP!
2006-12-23 18:38:17 · 12 answers · asked by Soph 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was talking about more like making out and grinding and stuff, not full on sex
2006-12-23 18:46:14 · update #1
Ok, so you've never been past first base and you met this guy over the summer. Sounds like He is really diggin you and the Vibe you put out there when you met. I think you are ready and you could make the first move if you just STAY confident. Just do what comes natural and dont worry if youve never done it before, Just Do It! ;)
Maby you should wear NIKE shoes just to remind you.
2006-12-23 18:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by Jah-Mall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you might not be too sure about your decision to "go further" with him. If you are, I suggest you educate yourself on all the risk factors involved before you decide to go ahead. You can check out www.teenwire.com, its a great site that can answer most of your questions and educates you on sex, oral sex, inner and outercourse etc. After you've done that, www.quikcondoms.com provides different "how to" techniques that you may find helpful. I hope you think about things before you decide and always protect yourself. Good Luck!
2006-12-24 02:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jocey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG-this is exactly what I would hope would happen to me-jealous-lol, nah congrats! Best thing I can advice you to do is just go with your feelings and make a comment like-"I like chivalry, but i think it has died out, ...you know guys making the first move, what about you, what do you think about chivalry?",and he should get the picture.
2006-12-24 02:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know how and are really nervous then you are NOT ready to "do the deed". I suggest you wait until you are old enough to take responsilbity for ALL of the consequences that might arise with having sex.
2006-12-24 02:41:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hug him, kiss him, and then press your body against his. If he doesn't get the message, then he is just as inexperienced as you are, and therefore you have nothing to worry about. On the other hand, if he is experienced, you don't have to worry about that either. I'm sure he'll walk you through it.
2006-12-24 02:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by Jack S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk to him about it. I know this sounds weird, but guys can be very clueless. Tell him you want to go further but you want take it slow and you want it be special. This way he can put some effort into making it romantic.
2006-12-24 02:42:10 · answer #6 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow. Don't push things. If they happen, great. If they don't then it wasn't supposed to happen. When you try and MAKE things happen then thats when things get screwed up and you regret it. Just chill and have fun.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-24 02:47:56 · answer #7 · answered by orchidshel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't start anything you can't control :) I suggest you guys just hangout as usual whilst he's in town. And if "things" don't happen, it's all for the best :)
2006-12-24 02:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by Zenithia Victora 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this the first time for the guy also?
Everything will be ok , Let it goes natualy!
Hope you happy
2006-12-24 02:43:35 · answer #9 · answered by eve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you arent ready for more than kissing...so dont go there right now...
2006-12-24 02:41:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋