i'm single, i haven't been single in a long time and know that my bf and i broke up, i want someone who keeps me happy. it's been a month or maybe two, and i don't know if i should just go to parties with my friends or get a guy. please help tell me if i should get a guy or not, and if i should what type of guy? please help. thankx
2006-12-23 18:30:01 · 23 answers · asked by Katleen F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok dont become a hooker lol just give it time usually a guy the type you would is like when you see him youll feel like flirting youll smile.. you just feel warm and comfortable near him. and you love him so much your stomach feels all weird.......
so do what u got to do!!
2006-12-23 18:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by Zack M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to be dating someone to be happy. There are a lot of people you can be around that bring joy in your life. You don't always have to label a guy friend as a boyfriend. I find that a lot of my friends feel as if they can't be happy unless they're in a relationship. Go to parties and hang with your friends, but you don't always need to go on the prowl to catch a guy. Maybe you need this time to be single, to get to know yourself more. It will help you choose someone in the future that truly makes you happy, because you'll know what you truly want in life and look for in a guy. So best of luck, and happy holidays. Remember, there's so much more to life than dating.
2006-12-23 18:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and have fun again. If you stay alone at home, nothing will be same again. You shouldn't look after a bf, it will happen, just when you are not looking for it. Have a good time with your friends and discover a new life. You can have also a lot of fun without a bf. Just wait and try to have a good time. You can keep yourself happy.
Don't hurry. Just let the time do it.
2006-12-23 19:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking what type of guy you should get and wheter you should get a guy or not then my opinion would be for you to just chill/relax and give yourself time to go out and have fun, if you go clubbing/partying dont go with intentions of finding yourself a guy,have fun and perhaps meet people there that you can start hanging out with and make new friends. Trust me you will meet the right guy when the time is right dont rush it and dont look for him either he will cross your path. Enjoy yourself a little! Why are you thinking/stressing about getting another guy when you just got out of a relationship? Hope my advice helps God Bless and Good Luck!!
2006-12-23 18:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by Juliet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on girl, What's wrong with you. You have just been free from a cage which you thought was good for you. Just feel the heat and enjoy your life. Don't be so insecure sweet heart. I was just like you, always looking for someone to be there for me, someone to hold close, someone to kiss..every time anytime. But trust me after a little while this all fades away. Then again you become the one you were before. So just don't think about your future BF right now, think about yourself. Do something productive with your life. Invest in yourself, you will never regret it. Take care, be strong. If you love yourself, people will too.
2006-12-23 18:40:50 · answer #5 · answered by UpNorthDownSouth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life isn't over just because you don't have a guy at your side. Don't concentrate on looking for someone, rather, just go out and have fun and if it just so happens that you find Mr. Right, go with the flow. If you insist on looking for someone, look for the type of guy you can be yourself round no matter what and who truly enjoys time with you. If you feel you have to act a certain part to be with him, then maybe he's not the right guy.
2006-12-23 18:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by Jocey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should pay more a lot of attention to your friends! you should be thankful for them because even without your boyfriend, they are always there for you. Spend quality time with them! go to parties and at this moment, don't get a guy! Meet a lot of guys first before choosing again another individual to love!
Try to think of it this way, isn't it more fun when you're in a party dancing with a couple of guys without even feeling a bit guilty about it!??
2006-12-23 18:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to parties AND get a guy.
Only you can decide what type of guy. If you don't know what type, you shouldnt be looking yet, because then youll settle for anyone who comes along.
2006-12-23 18:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go looking for a guy. Just let him come to you. But if you feel you weren't happy with your last boyfriend, then you did the right thing. Every young lady deserves happiness. Its coming soon!! Just be patient and don't settle for anything but the best!
2006-12-23 18:32:25 · answer #9 · answered by ms ambitious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you're gambling your love life on yahoo!answers?
are you ready? and what do you mean you'be been "single for a long time" and "its been a month or maybe two".
if you are ready than get a guy, i cant decide for you what type of guy you should date, you should know better, esp. if you want a guy who makes YOU happy.
if you're not..then dont. its that simple.
2006-12-23 18:33:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I am in your position too and I just go to the bar and hang out and what ever happens happens. I am not you I dont know what kind of a guy you like but go have fun
2006-12-23 18:34:10 · answer #11 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋