ok i have this problem... i like this girl, i once asked her out but she rejected me, and after that our relationship between us has been... silent and wierd, and now im starting to like her again.
how can i get her to like me or what do you girls think is the best thing to do in my case..?
PS. i only want answers from girls mostly
2006-12-23 18:20:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you've asked her out and it got weird, then I suggest you try to be satisfied being her friend for now.
Girls are brought up to resist boys advances, they are taught to be protective of themselves. If she feels like you have an agenda or want to push the relationship further, I think it will cause her to draw away from you.
If you really like her, I suggest you be her friend right now. Just be there, don't push or ask for more. Be considerate, concientious, sweet, nice, generous, a real friend. Give her the opportunity to let her feelings develop without being threatened and maybe she'll come around to making a move.
If not, you've had the opportunity and experience of being a friend to a woman in a non-aggressive, non-sexual way, and that experience will pay off for the rest of your life.
2006-12-23 18:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely, if she said no the first time, it might be safe to say that you should be cautious in asking again. Consider for a moment, her body language. Does it look like she is interested in you? Does she smile toward you at all? If she doesn't and is not looking like she is interested you should better find a girl who will and not waste any more of your time.
But on the note if it is possible to make her like you, it seems some girls will like a guy who does not flatter them or even engage with them. The "uninterested" type is very interesting to us. It makes it mysterious and interesting if you do not pay such loving attention to her. She will wonder what you are up to nd then will perhaps become jealous.
Or perhaps she is already taken? Have you considered this?
In other words, I think it would be best in your case to try "acting cool". Perhaps you would like to try this for a little bit and see what happens. If it does not work for a few weeks, move on and really stop wasting precious time
Much luck!
2006-12-24 02:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mayonaise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok buddy, you can't make it awkward. Or it will be awkward. Act normal, but not carefree. Flirt but not too much. Just be there for her and like try and chill as much as possible.
BTW what did she say. No? Or did she have a reason. If she said you were ugly, then.. you got to look hott. Well, like look good for her. Get good COLOGNE. That always attracts a girl. Lots of eye contact, but not to the point where its stalker. Just.. be there for her, and again not too stalker. Just give her some space when she needs it.
2006-12-24 02:25:38 · answer #3 · answered by Sandra<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say if she rejected you once, she would probably do it again. Your best bet is probably to bring back that friendship that you once had. It is probably not good advice, but I always go with the "pretend it didn't happen" philosophy. You pretend you didnt get rejected and hang out with her like you used to. Then she will either get feelings for you or she won't, but there really is no way you can get her to like you. She has to do that on her own.
2006-12-24 02:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out. And if she says no, move on like the other person before me said.
2006-12-24 02:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by fullofsunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to become friends asking her out will be going to fast. Let her get to know you and you should try to get to know her better too. Dont let her know that you like her again make her think that you just want to be cool friends.
2006-12-24 02:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by kassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well try talking 2 her, & be all like hey,wat happened 2 us,we used 2 be so close, & talk all the time,can we jus b frnds again,then she may like u again.
2006-12-24 02:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by anOnymOus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its not impossible.
If you just be her friend and flirt with her. But dont go to overboard first. She'll eventually like you.
2006-12-24 02:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ask her out again.
If she doesn't want to, then move on!
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2006-12-24 02:30:19 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you can't really force someone to like you....but you can try being nice to her and sweet to her
but it all depends on her. if she's not into you, then don't push it...you don't want her to end up hating you.
2006-12-24 02:25:06 · answer #10 · answered by elusive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋