ex girlfriend is she trying to make me jealous?

Question

i was going out with a girl for 2.5 years after around a year i did not want to be with her but didnt know how to break up with her. we broke up i didnt talk to her for 3 months then she got a boyfriend and i not sure if developed feelings or jealousy. she tells me all the things he does i didnt, but she would still call me like everynight till i said i loved her. was me saying this love or jealousy cause i never acted like this when we dated only after i found out she had a boyfriend. i never thought about her in the time we were broken up but since she got a boyfriend and like tells me all the things he does i have some kind of feelings. i know how much she lvoed me when we dated cause she said she wanted to marry me, but now does not think like that since we broke up about with anyone.

Answer 1

Michael, its the classic, you don't want her and don't want anyone else to have her.

The pair of you need to grow up!!

Answer 2

If I am your ex-girlfriend.. i must let you regret for what you had easily let go. Been 2.5 years.. and you had just easily let go cos' you felt bored and thinking that the relationship become and habit am I right to say so? For the past 3 months, you never even talk to her or miss her. Why suddenly developed the feeling that you still love her and a feeling of jealous? You are just simply having the man's ego. When you have it, you dont treasure... when its gone... now then feeling of jealous and began to have feelings for her again? Now you are just a lonely man....I guess.. Hope that you will treasure who is with you in future and dont easily let go...

Answer 3

it took more than a year to break up with someone you did not want to date anymore? this is a serious lack of maturity. breaking up is not easy but direct is much better than string someone along. Why are you talking to someone you wanted to break up with for more than a year and didnt talk with for 3 months anyways? you never should have restarted talking again. I'm seriously concerned that you telling someone you didnt want to date that you love them.
Grow a spine, live your life... let her go totally.... you need to take some time and figure out what you want.
She is just trouble... i'm sure her new boyfriend doesnt appreciate her calls to you. what would you think if you were him know what she is talking to about?

Answer 4

Well obviously she is hurt because she hella loved you and she gave you her heart and expected you to hold on to it and not break it... but now since you guyz broke up its like she is tryin to get back at you for hurtin her.........and she tells you these things about her new boyfriend because she probably cant realize why you couldnt be like that.....and even though she is with a new guy i think that if she is calling you still then she still wants to be wit you and is still hurting...........

Answer 5

yes, get another girl or confront her. SHe only wants to break your heart, stop thinking of her and find another girl that may respect you more. I also think that she is cheating on her current too if she does that.

Answer 6

yes she is trying to hurt you and make you jealous to show you what you lost and messed up , and you have no reason to continue talking to her, she is not a friend ,she is being manipulative and hurtful ,you dont need this ,walk away

Answer 7

if you two broke up why are you 2 still talking

Answer 8

dude......be a man..get out there into the world and catch yourself another fish......tell your ex to share her cooking tips with her new man....remember why you wanted to break up in the first place..

Answer 9

Sounds like it. Just move on.

Answer 10

Well, whether she tried or not (I think she did), she has succeeded! When she calls, hang up. Keep doing that.