My ex-boyfriend contacted me recently and left me 2 voicemails on my phone saying he loved and missed me. I decided to call him back (we have been broken up for over 3 years) he ended up coming over and spending a few days at my apartment and hung out though we were not officially together again. Tonight I go really depressed and suicidal and I called him and he totally blew me off and insulted me! He told me that he didn't care if I killed myself and to go ahead and do it. He told me to quit calling him and called me a *****. I am devestated that he would do this. Why?
2006-12-23 17:50:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I'm so sorry for you- he is definitely an shole- he either wanted to make a booty call or he had a change of heart after being with you- maybe he wasn't sure about your breakup but then after being with you, he decided he wanted to be free and be an *** also.
Please call a help line to talk to you-- you are in a fragile state of mind over this goofus and he doesnt even deserve the time of day- do not do something foolish like suicide- he doesnt deserve to be even breathing the same air as you do--- please get counseling and there are nice guys out there- this time date someone who is the opposite of this loser- you may be pleasantly surprised and have a nice relationship- sometimes our mind makes us go for the "bad guys" and guess what- they never change and if you do marry them- they are the cheaters-- so consider yourself lucky this loser is out of your life for good. It is HIS LOSS, NOT YOURS.
2006-12-23 17:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by mac 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been ignoring your questions up til now.. They are all the same and so I'm going to tell you the truth.
You need to get over yourself. I think you enjoy the drama, create problems and hope people will feel sorry for you. In my experience and I do have lots, people who are suicidal do not phone ex boyfriends for sympathy before they do it. You have the right to feel which ever way you want but don't whinge about it. You are making these decisions to feel this way and you are just hoping for someone to cry to. You're a drama queen with a self centred personality who likes to blame everything on someone else. Here you are calling up your ex, dumping a load of depressing sh*t on him then asking why would he be like this? Seriously, listen to yourself. You don't have the right to annoy others as you do and I bet you annoy a lot of people LOTS. My advise (& you asked for it) is that you either make the decision to be happy and put the work in, like the rest of the bloody world does or you leave the rest of us alone until you have a real problem.. one which you haven't created yourself.
Well.. you CONTINUOUSLY asked for our thoughts on the matter and they are mine.
2006-12-25 14:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's ungrateful sweetie, he's also not an good enough reason for u to kill yourself. my advice is next time you feel as though u wanna commit suicide ;think about the life's of people you know that you'll be leaving behind, think about hw sad they'll be without you. so please don't waste ur life on death when you were put here for a reason. take my advice and live on!
2006-12-23 18:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by aria19_lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally people do not say stuff like, "yeah, so I got suicidal tonight..." so I would concider that you may be the problem and he probably has a few too if he's with you.
2006-12-23 17:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he justanted a cruch and that was you unfortunetly. next time he comes around tell him to piss off!
2006-12-23 17:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop being a wining crybaby brat ok?
2006-12-25 07:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by On It 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he was little bit confused or something
2006-12-23 17:54:08 · answer #7 · answered by chingun_g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋