when your significant other goes to fancy restaurants/bars often and alone, and sometimes doesn't mention it to you?
2006-12-23 17:24:44 · 14 answers · asked by wishfulthinking 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
people who are together shouldnt be keeping secrets from each other... it should be full out open honesty... if it's anything less than that, there's probably something going on (or an attempt for such) that you don't know about...
best thing you can do is to confront them about it... as long as you're fine with them going, then just tell them to be honest about going... if you're not fine with it, then offer to go with them... if they're not okay with you going, then you know right away what's going on... if they're fine with you going, then go by all means! go out and have a good time!
2006-12-23 17:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by luke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, and really bad too!
Sounds like the "Significant other" would rather be out alone most of the time, and it's a sure thing when the person doesn't mention that they frequent the places.
You need to talk to your partner before something happens and you have a reason to leave!
Watch out and be aware!
2006-12-24 01:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by julesrules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it probably would and should. because unless you really really trust them, you may not know if they really are going alone. what if they're going to meet up with someone. or it would also bug me because he goes out to fancy restaurants/bars with out me, it would just make me feel alone.
2006-12-24 01:28:14 · answer #3 · answered by soccer loser0903 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it would bother me... I would think, "Am I not good enough to be invited to go with him?" and then I would think "Is he going there to meet up with someone else?" and then I would get mad, even if that's not the case. Why does your significant other go to these places, or do you know? I would talk to him/her about it, and see what's really happening.
2006-12-24 01:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure would bug me to the point of boiling mad. What is the reason for it to begin with? Are they ashamed of you, or do they just like being alone or are they cheating on you. I would find some answers quickly.
2006-12-24 01:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by myninny54 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe that person wants some alone time, but at least that person should mention where that person is going. Ask him whats wrong and why is he doing this.
2006-12-24 01:29:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't make me feel like any sort of significant other.
2006-12-24 01:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be concerned. I would think "Why couldn't he just invite me to go with him. Does he really want to be with me? Is he meeting someone else?" Just ask yourself those questions.
2006-12-24 01:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by confused soul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would bother me, not the fact that he isn't taking me, but the fact that he is basically hiding it from me. It would make me question who he is meeting and what they are doing.
2006-12-24 01:27:21 · answer #9 · answered by princess_heather43787 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she's not cheating, I really don't care what she does with her time away from me.
2006-12-24 01:28:32 · answer #10 · answered by CSA_NP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋