this guy told me that he really liked me and i told him that i like him and he said we might be going out..(kinda weird.?)but i still am very attached to my ex and im not over him.how can i tell him that im not wanting a relationship right now but still letting him know that i still llike him???(im only 15 and i dont want it to sound lame or anything)thnx.....
2006-12-23 17:24:19 · 17 answers · asked by roxygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well take time to think bout it that who is important 4 u. What ur heart says just follow. Remember Love shouldn`t be imposed to anyone.
Gud Luck
2006-12-23 17:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by HEMANT K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are only 15 so you shouldn't be worried. Don't fall back to the ex. It causes nothing but emotional pain 90% of the time. If you like this new guy, give it a go. It may be something great. You just have to break free if you think you have met someone who could be a potential mate. Letting go of old emotions is hard, but it is something that is necessary for moving on with your life. If you let this guy go, you may miss out. But, don't date him if you aren't that into him because he doesn't deserve that.
2006-12-23 17:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by confused soul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that this is sucha gray area to solve. It's what you would call a double-edged sword...whatever decision you make can bring a long-lasting effect on you afterwards. The best thing I can tell you is just be honest with him about how you're feeling. Most of the time honesty is the best way to go. If he understands, then he understands. If not...then he'll end up missing out on a great person if things don't end up well with your ex afterwards.
2006-12-23 17:29:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lame is some guy walking around telling that you are going out and you are afraid to tell him otherwise.
Your opinion counts. Your feelings count just as much as his. If you arent ready for it, he needs to hear that. If you arent ready a hundred times in a row, tell him each time. Its your responsibility to tell him, and his to respect it.
Be real. Dont be afraid of his opinion, which is what "sounding lame" really translates into. Your opinion is valid, and needs to be spoken clearly, and respected.
2006-12-23 17:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by Curly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 don,t know what they want your still a child. I say go to school study hard get good grade cause this little baby stuffs won,t last long because there be more than one MOBY ***** in your life. Sweety your young and becareful not to get hurts, pregnants , or serious diseases.
2006-12-23 17:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A weird condition to handle with... to be frank... just tell this guy all the truth... n I hope... if he likes u then he'll definately understand ur present condition... n try to finish off as soon as possible with ur ex... so that u dont hurt this guy much...
2006-12-23 17:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by Demolisher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young to be so worried. Just tell him you like him but need time. He should understand. If not, then he is not the right guy for you. You need someone who wants the best for you. Good luck!
2006-12-23 17:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by njspanteach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL U NEED 2 TELL HIM ABOUT THIS. IF U DNT WANT HIM 2 GET 2 A POINT WHERE HE MADLY N LUV WIT U, U NEED 2 LET HIM KNOW SO HE WONT END UP HURT. YA CAN STILL B FRIENDZ UNTIL YOU R OVER YOUR EX.
2006-12-23 17:27:03 · answer #8 · answered by Jasmin H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. There's no way to say it without hurting him. The sooner you tell him, the sooner he'll get over it.
"Life IS Pain. Anyone who tells you different is selling you something." -The Dread Pirate Roberts
2006-12-23 17:27:35 · answer #9 · answered by Capt. Obvious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say that you are still getting over your last relationship and need time to recover from it. Thank him for understanding.
2006-12-23 17:29:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋