I quit smoking, and she won't, I am disgusted by her now.. what do you guys think? she is great otherwise, But I don't want to kiss her anymore, or go to her house. and I won't let her smoke in my house, so she won't come over...
2006-12-23 17:20:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, ex-smokers are annoying to smokers and non smokers alike. Just compromise. Your superficial demands might catch up to you. Happy Christmas.
2006-12-23 17:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by firestarter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its wrong to dump a girl because she smokes. It's your own personal reason, right? If you quit smoking for a reason and she continues to smoke around you in a relationship, then she really isn't the right person for you. Otherwise, everyone has their flaws and this is just one of hers. Either way, it most likely is a decision you made for you own personal being. I hope this helps answer your question.
2006-12-24 01:25:39 · answer #2 · answered by yoro1989 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her smoking will make you have desires to start smoking again, then it's right to dump her. But if you have will power over the smoking thing, then it's wrong to dump her.
Plus over time, she might quit too because of your example.
2006-12-24 01:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl with a bonafide oral fixation is not easy to find. Man up, buy her some gum and let her smoke in the kitchen. My dad pisses his pants a little everytime yawns, but mom didn't leave him. Have a heart dude.
2006-12-24 01:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by DocGonzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is perfectly right to dump her for smoking. smoking is an awful habit and could lead to you having smoke related problems. and if you are disgusted by her than get rid of her. remember for every cigarette a smoker smokes they lose 5.5 minutes of there life.
2006-12-24 01:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by tyler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's fine to get rid of her if she doesn't stop smoking. It's obviously causing your relationship to deteriorate... you're not physically attracted to her as much, if you don't want to kiss her... and I personally would not want to smell smoke (and smell like smoke) all of the time....
2006-12-24 01:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it is wrong at all. as a normal person u have standards for your significant other. she obviously doesnt meet them so move on! SMOKING IS DISGUSTING ANYWAYS
Congrats on quitting!!!
2006-12-24 01:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you to quit. There's two type of people: Smokers and non smokers. Non smokers don't have to condescend to kissing smokers. Its just gross. Move on! Way to go!
2006-12-24 01:36:28 · answer #8 · answered by mothsa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say goodbye. Nothing worse than kissing an ash tray.
2006-12-24 01:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by Capt. Obvious 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I applaud you for giving up the habit yourself...and if you find her smoking offensive, then it is time to move on.
2006-12-24 01:27:25 · answer #10 · answered by SUSAN N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋