OK. Theres this guy i really like, and were sortof friends and i have a huge crush on him!! I dont want to ask him out bcuz ill seem desperate.... I dont think hell go out with me any way (yeah... im ugly :( ) It will be So embaressing if i ask him out bcuz im FAT and ugly and every1 will laugh at me.... :/
2006-12-23 16:54:30 · 14 answers · asked by wounded_demon_13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ask him u never know unless u try.
2006-12-23 16:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by southerndawg777 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well with that attitude, it doesn't seem like you'll be getting him soon!
the trick is that you have to feel sexy and confident and sure about yourself. Do it in a playful way, and if he's been thinking about it, he'll jump at the idea.
Let me give you an example. This is what I did a few days ago (i was scared, but i did it anyways). I was talking with this guy that I really like and I thought liked me too, we had talked for a while and then the conversation went:
he: i'm feeling pretty sick and tired too
me: oh I recognise those symptoms
he: really doctor? tell me more
me: well apparently you're got (myname)syndrome. you're sick cos u miss me; and as for the cure.....
he: yeah right that's why. so wats the cure?
me: the cure is for you to go out with me
he: serious?
me: serious.
he: i'm in : ) i could never refuse doctor's orders!
me: alright boo, sounds like u're on the road to recovery!
Something like that might work for you too. When you take this approach, you still have the upper hand bcos if he says no, you can say u were joking or something. And pls don't call urself ugly or fat! I'm sure you're not bad at all, besides the dude wouldn't be your friend if he thought you were ugly. goodluck!
2006-12-24 01:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 5foot 6 200 lbs... i get more attention now then when i was 130... why? ATTITUDE.... i am fun, sexy, confident that attracks people... no whining...no self abuse...... just me in all my glory! pardon the pun..... dont waste your time on someone who doesnt seem interested... if your in highschooll this may take awhile....be patient. I know rejection hurts but only hurts for a while..... if its really important you'll ask... maybe try some creative way..... and who cares what others think... live your life for you! every one is special no matter size... surround yourself with people that like your personality not what you look like... be happy, be you...
if your concerned about weight then look a HEALTHY options to keep it under controll... daily exercise, lots of veggies, healthy fats in small amounts.. lean meats... pick up most womens magazine and healthy adicea bounds... multiblebody index calculators on the web find out how muchb lean protein, vegatable carbs, fat you need daily. good luck...
2006-12-24 01:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sweety Hold Up ok, First of all I would think you Have to know that no one that god created is fat and ugly, yourself esteem needs to be lifted hun, don't be so bummed out ok, I am sure you have some sexy sides to yourself and someone will find them don't worry, Just ask him if he likes you and it will all be fine, I would make the first move, If I see something that I like which I don't really do, only once and we are really great friends, but I made the first move, so do it ok, Good luck
2006-12-24 01:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by Brie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think your ready. Someone who doesnt like the way she looks or has no courage or faith to relly on her self for a relationship will have a hardtime finding a guy.
2006-12-24 01:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by kassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey don't say that about yourself. it just lowers yourself-esteem. i'm sure you're gorgeous!! if you're only "sort of" friends with him, become better friends wtih him so he can get to know you better, then maybe he'll start to like you too. talk to him more. call him. give him compliments.
hope i helped.
2006-12-24 00:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by soccer loser0903 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey have a little confidence and just go for it i know you think rejection will kill you but it will only make you stronger
2006-12-24 00:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by DMY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you have a low self-esteem and you dont want to ask him out then what do you want us to tell you?
you will find it easier to get blood from a stone. than to get him.
2006-12-24 00:57:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont be so hard on yourself. if he does say no, its prob because of your lack of confidence! so, who cares what everybody else thinks, go get your man!
2006-12-24 00:57:47 · answer #9 · answered by blah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-24 00:57:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋