Sometimes I fill like Iwant to run away,run from every thing I have in life, but I'm scared.?

Question

I'm always alone, I fill like my brother hates me, Mainly I fill hated by everyone besides my friends. I think that's why I fill like I want to run away from everything I have. But sometimes Ifill like if I should run wher should I run to or who should I rau to. Can n*e * one help me.

Answer 1

You are scared and that is what we feel like doing when we are scared; running away is a normal sensation.

Realize you are ready to run, so run. But, just around the block, around the house if you have room, or up and down the stairs until you get tired.

And if anyone asks, just tell them "I am getting some exercise so I will feel better, or sleep better.

Then take a nice hot bath and go gets something to eat, and later when your are sleepy...nite, nite.

Answer 2

When a person feels the way you do, its only natural to look for some type of solution - which could be running away, or something else. You should be scared about running away - its not a very good solution, because you will leave behind your friends that like you, and its likely that things might be worse wherever you end up. So what can you do?

When a person feels alone and that everyone hates them, its a good bet that you mood and perception of things are being dragged down by something like depression. You may think that this sounds stupid because you're not sad, but low-level depression doesn't always cause people to feel sad - it causes the type of feelings you are feeling.

Talk to someone about the way you feel -your parents, friends, school counselor, or even family doctor. Maybe even e-mail me or other people here in Yahoo land that have responded to your question. You do not have to keep feeling like you do -I know this because I felt the same way for a long time until i told my doctor and he started me on antidepressants. So, look for a better solution than running away.

Take a look at some web pages, like this one to see what depression is and how it might be affecting you:

http://www.healthyplace.com/communities/depression/dysthymia.asp

Answer 3

The other answer-ers pretty much have it right. But I just want to tell you that anything you're running from, is made worse when you run.

By not confronting it you meet the worst enemy of any emotional/psychological problem: yourself. People tend to over-exaggerate problems in their head and build on them until they're gigantic. I suggest you sit down for a while and give yourself some time to think about things. Put things up against the grand scale of life. Running away is a large decision so you might as well take enough time to make sure it's what is necessary.

Good luck.

Answer 4

Boy, you sound stressed girl! (Trying to make you laugh) If I were in your shoes I would run too. But, unfortunately, it sounds like that isn't an option for you right now. Tell me if I'm wrong though, it is kinda late where I am and I could be totally off base. Putting all this aside, I can definately tell that you have way too many things going on in your head and it's starting to break you down. Completely understandable AND NORMAL under the circumstances. A lot of people think that when people break down it's because there's something's wrong with them. IT'S TOTALLY NOT TRUE! As a matter of fact, I would be scared if, when compounded with all that stress, you DIDN'T break down. Breaking down is your brain's way of preserving itself when it's overwhelmed. So be thankful that at least SOMETHING is working right! Now, how to take the edge off of things. Well for starters, you need to understand that this is your BRAIN doing it's thing to keep itself going. IT'S NOT YOU!!! Secondly, how to help your brain recover faster, help it shut off the cycle of thoughts going on. The easy thing about this is, if you've already completed step 1 by telling yourself that this is your brain's thing, you're already there, you've already gotten control of the thoughts so all that's really left is to keep telling yourself that it's your brain thing and to crash into a nice, comfy bed and sleep for a couple days (or whatever your brain decides it needs to reboot). That's the nice thing about breaking down, well there's 2 things really, you have exclusive authority to relax and you don't have to solve any of the problems. Your brain can't do it right now so you get a vacation from your problems for a while. In my opinion, it's probably the best Christmas present anyone could ever get!

Answer 5

If you feel alone, the best thing to do is surround yourself with people that love you. If you feel your friends are the only ones, then latch onto them until the feeling passes.

I do not know what is going on with you and your brother but most likely he doesn't REALLY hate you. It is probably just a case of sibling rivalry. (I am not trying to make light of what you are feeling so please dont take it that way).

Running away is not the answer. I know it seems like a "quick fix" but that is all it is. It will only cause more problems and bring more feelings of being alone/secluded from others.

You need to find someone you trust to talk to. Talking really helps. Even if you think they won't understand. Just give it a shot, you just may be surprised!

I have been in your place many times (when I was younger). I chose to run. I only caused more problems and caused myself to go into a deep depression. It took many years to come out of this. SO please don't run from what you are experiencing.

If you need to talk you are more than welcome to email me anytime!

Answer 6

Running away is not gonna solve the problem, you'll still be alone and you'll still feel hated. My advice to you is to talk to people, talk to your brother about what you're feeling. I wanted to runaway from home when I was 18, now 8 years later I thank God that I didn't. Life is gonna through problems in your way, and if you don't have a support system (family and friends) you won't be able to make it on your own. Cherish the little things in life, get excited over new things, read new books, do something that makes you happy that you didn't do in a while. Listen to "Everybody is free to wear sunscreen" by Baz Luhrmann. Good luck!

Answer 7

The worst thing to do is to run from everything in your life. You need to face what is bothering you about all the topics you listed above. I used to feel the same way. that is why i am responding to your question. I used to run away and run away and run away from anything that scared me or if i felt like people did not like me or for whatever reason. But if you keep running, it will catch up with you. You are a strong person, it just seems someone has just verbally abused you to the point to where you feel like you are worth nothing anymore honey. you are worth facing your fears and not caring if someone doesnt like you, who cares if people hate you?? And for whatever reason?? Just move on with your life. You live you life to make YOU happy and only YOU. If you lived everyday to make everyone else happy, you would be nuts. I learned people are not always going to like you and thats ok. I just ignored them kind of people and you should too, they are a waste of your time. You need to start talking yourself out of the rut someone talked you down into honey. I think you might have a medical problem too, I did when I finally got sick of running from everything and worrying about making everyone happy but myself. I was severly depressed and had severe depression. I was having anxiety attacks when i would worry about everything i could not control. you are better than running from your problems. i used to do the same thing. if you need to talk more, email me and we can chat in private. I know how you are feeling, i have been there. email me anytime. my name is kelly you will have to let me know your name and email address if you want too. if not i understand.

Answer 8

I understand what you're going through, Sandra! really, I do. I felt depressed, too, but started getting better last spring. I, too, am a lone most of the time. But believe me, suicide is neve the right answer! Instead of running away from life, why don't you simpy run away from your alleged friends? That's right, litterally move to another city or state. And or try to make new friends. Why don't you come talk to Uncle,about it? Felize Navidad!

Answer 9

everyone passes that stage in life where you simply want to drop dead and not mind anything. but it will just be for a while because
you will be coming into your right senses again and find out what you have left behind. from there, you can pick up the pieces and move on to be the best you can be. i had been into that cycle and
i am proud to say that "i made it through the rain".

Answer 10

At these times, you should think of people who have very less than what you have in life. Think of the people who have not even 2 meals a day. Remember the saying :-
' When you want to kill your loneliness and sadness, remove a thorn stuck in somebody's foot and look at his face. You will feel happier.'