i like a guy that is perfect for me-handsome, and has the qualities i want in someone. but, im not sure if he feels the same way. its so frusturating because he will not ask me out....but we work together, so maybe he just doesnt want to jeoperdize his job. has anyone went through the same feelings? i need some words of encouragment, this is so frusturaing!!!!!
2006-12-23 16:50:43 · 12 answers · asked by ♥♥♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is so depressing!!!
im only 15 and this is how i am spending my christmas!!!! lord help me....
oh and no, i dont find myself ugly thank you, whoever you are
2006-12-23 17:02:45 · update #1
Move on-- he's out of your league or he feels you are out of his league- either way, it's not gonna happen-- and that is life. Sometimes we "want" isn't exactly what we should "have"- that saying falls through in a lot of aspects in our lives- what you may think is the type that would make you happy- may just be a pipe dream...... keep your eyes open for the guy that NOTICES YOU, not the other way around, and he's the one you want to be interested in.
2006-12-23 16:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by mac 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been thru the same situation... If u have feelings for this guy... then try to confess before him... n if u dont want to do that n want him to take the decision or to make him the first move... then in this case u might miss the appropriate tym... n when u'll realise that its the right tym... then u'll come to know that its too late... so u should judge the right tym on time n should make the move first... if he too have the same feelings then the answer will be positive... n if not... then dont worry... there are still many fishes in the sea...
and regarding ur present condition... u just try to concentrate on ur work... I know... its hard... I mean Its TOUGH but still u need to ignore ur feelings while u r on work n should concentrate only on work... n if he comes before u while working... just look at him like a good friend... am sure that will help u out...
2006-12-24 00:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by Demolisher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you hit the nail on the head. It could be your job holding him back. Maybe you should confront him and let him know how you feel. If you don't then you may never know if it was meant to be. You will then think back well if I had just told him what would've happened. Go for it. Good Luck
2006-12-24 00:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by tidbittrivitt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through the almost same thing last year around this time. we were talking and everything but he never really asked me out and it just got so frustrating to the point where i ended it. i think you should just talk to him and see whats up
2006-12-24 00:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient, maybe he's getting his nerves up. Don't let it get you down though. If it continues, maybe try and ask him out or suggest hanging out with a group of people.
2006-12-24 00:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i have the same feelings for someone right now too. if he's honestly perfect for you then he'd like you just as much as you like him. maybe you think you love him, but perhaps you really don't.
hope i helped.
2006-12-24 00:54:54 · answer #6 · answered by soccer loser0903 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I have, then I approached her to break the ice and we just chilled out for a while one of my best moves
Break the Ice
2006-12-24 01:17:29 · answer #7 · answered by Xzavier W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i still have that person, so i asked him out. he said maybe and that was 3 months ago. we might be going out soon. ask him out, it might take some time, but who knows after you go out with him you might not even want him.
2006-12-24 00:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by death_of_faries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha...Yeah one of my best friends. Sucks, doesn't it?
2006-12-24 00:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u are ugly!!!
2006-12-24 00:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by Aaron M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋