you are grown now, and love and fear god above all else. you are annointed and truly walk with god. You are a true believing christian. However you have not fully forgave your parents. You talk to them and are even nice. everything on the outside looks like your relationship is fine, but you still truly can not forgive them. WILL YOU BE ALOUD IN TO HEAVEN WITHOUT FORGIVING YOUR PARENTS, WHO DESTROYED YOUR CHILDHOOD. please answer intelligently.
2006-12-23 16:48:58 · 11 answers · asked by ofgatorline_1 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Many people I know that had hard upbringings are serving God and are over comers and survivors and thriving. I came from a large family and my parents were very strict maybe a little too sctict but I forgave them for the unfair corporal punishment that I received at times even when it was not my fault. All I can say is this parents are humans and if they did not have good parents it may hurt their children. God gave us our parents and we need to pray for them because they need help and guidance in all stages of thier lives even when they have "empty nest" syndrome meaning the kids are all moved out of the home and it is just them.
Forgivness is healing and cleansing and the way to get into heaven is by Jesus Christ who died for you John3:3 John 3:16.17
If a parent destroyed ones child hood and have not repented before God they WILL answer to God but is it never to late to have a happy life and childhood no matter how old you are and this has been my lifes lesson over the years.
2006-12-23 17:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by encourager4God 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not your job to forgive. Although of course i have heard it makes a person feel much better on the inside of or something, however i have no room to talk but yes. Jesus died for our sins and he forgave us all. If you truly believe then Jesus will forgive you for anything. Never question your faith, its what keeps us alive. And also just do the best you can with them. you dont have to forgive them because well its almost close to being impossible. I could never imagine forgiving mine, but to each his own. I hope you move past your past. I shall prey for you.
2006-12-23 17:00:28 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether or not your parents have ever apologized, or have ever asked you to forgive them.
If they are unrepentant -- that is, if they've never expressed remorse or told you they were sorry -- then it would be difficult, if not impossible, for you to forgive them. But that's because of them, not you -- because if they don't think they did anything wrong, they can't experience a feeling of forgiveness anyway.
If, on the other hand, they've expressed remorse to you and have asked you to forgive them ... then, yes, it would be necessary for you to try to find it within yourself to forgive them.
This doesn't mean you have to forget about what they did. It doesn't even mean you have to have a close relationship with them.
God forgives those who ask His forgiveness. He doesn't force His mercy and forgiveness on people who don't want it or don't think they need it.
The same goes with human relationships. If someone doesn't think they've wronged you -- even if they clearly have wronged you -- then it wouldn't be possible to forgive them because they're not open to it anyway.
I hope that you're doing okay today, despite the abuse you endured as a child. With prayer and faith, God can help us overcome anything.
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2006-12-23 16:58:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im afraid you are going to have to ask God to help you,maybe you have forgiven them more than you know,and you are just carrying the pain of your childhood....I know that to forgive someone it can be very hard,but God can make it possible,sometimes it takes time....I know that scripture says in order to get forgiveness you must be able to forgive....It also says to forgive them that despitfully use you.i had some hate in my heart one time and i felt like you did,but prayer helped me.God knws what you are going through ans as long as you are trying and doing the best you can he will honor that....I will pray for you also.
2006-12-23 17:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by slickcut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are truly walking with God, then you would bear fruits of God, like patience, kindness, and forgiveness.
I know it is not fair that your childhood was corrupted by these people, but Jesus did say to love your enemies as you love yourself, for what good does it do if you love those who love you back?
REPENT for having hatred in your heart.
The Kingdom of God is near.
i'll pray for you <3
2006-12-23 16:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by monica80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 22:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES,God knows what you have lived is hard.I had the same life.Thank God ,Jesus gave me the power to forgive them before they died.
I have found a peace in my heart after I forgave them.When you pray ,ask Jesus to give you the faith to forgive your parents.He will do it.Remember forgiving is not forgetting.I have prayed for you.I have faith to believe God to help you with this hard trial.
Merry Christmas
God Bless
Love Nans<><
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2006-12-23 17:01:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2006-12-23 16:52:25 · answer #9 · answered by latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since your an adult now why don't you confront them and just put it behind you? it sounds like you still deal with what they did to you
2006-12-23 16:53:32 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋