So I've been going out with this girl for about a month. At first I really REALLY liked her and wanted to be around her all the time, but now I'm not even sure if I like her even more. The big problem is she really likes me. I guess I'm just afraid of breaking her heart. Why do I not seem to enjoy her company as much as I used to? What's going on?
2006-12-23 16:46:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be too hasty on making an big decision. You could just be in a slump right now. Couples hit slumps, and what really makes/defines them is whether they can rise above it. I've been in similar circumstances and all you've got to do is spice it up again...it's not hard. Seriously give it time, because if you don't you might regret it.
2006-12-23 16:52:47 · answer #1 · answered by toasterlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets be honest here. Another notch on the belt is the most likly reason you started to see her, right after you found out she was available and other friends of yours were interested in her. If you are able to be honest and can show compassion you better do the right thing here. Get your balls out of your mothers purse and either fall in love with her or let her go to someone who will love her.
2006-12-24 01:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by SeaJayDboss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her and be honest.Tell her that you don't want to hurt her feeling or anything, but you think it's time we stopped going out. And that you still like her as a friend but NOT ROMANTICALLY She should understand. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone who's heart and soul wasn't in it.
2006-12-24 00:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by cheryla2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's going on, what you thought you saw in her isn't there for you. there is no reason to keep something going when you are not into anymore cut it loose now Before you find yourself seeing someone else on her and her finding out. That would be more hurtful then cutting loose now.
2006-12-24 00:52:30 · answer #4 · answered by walstep2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you started going out with her to get to know her better, right? Maybe after you found out what she was like, you just don't like her. It happens all the time.
2006-12-24 00:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.... start keeping yourself at a distance...she'll get the message.
2006-12-24 00:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋