well there is a girl that has a bf and we were going to hook up bbut she went out with him instead. she told me she likes me. and she always txt msg me or calls me. invites me over to her house and lets me give her massages and she says she loves it. we always talk. she has only seen her bf 2 times in a week. i keep trying to get her to hook up with me. i got her a present and she always uses it and she says she loves it. what should i do?
2006-12-23 16:40:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, I'm sure you have heard this before, but stop trying. Be her friend and even talk nice about her bf. Let her call you most of the time, Of course still go over and give her massages but dont put any moves or make suggestions. Guys/girls, were all the same We love the challenge, she knows she can have you right now. You need to act like you dont really want her in a sexual or relationship way, at the same time being totally nice to her. Dont try to act cool, thats stupid, but you can act like you dont want her. Then either get or make pretend your busy alot, she will want you around even more. It works dude..... The alternative is to tell her you like her and she will say your her "friend". Make her the one who tells you she likes you..... Good Luck
2006-12-23 16:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so here is the deal u should ask her inadvertently if she likes u maybe with something like "if u didn't have a bf would u date me" then if she says no shes just being nice to you if she says yes then tell her how you feel be aware that this will change realationship 4 ever
2016-05-23 03:16:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like she needs to get things straight. Have you told her how you feel about her? That's were I would start and see if the feeling is mutual. If she has a bf though that may just cause more problems in the long run though. Honesty is the best, no matter what. If you aren't honest with her how is she suposed to know how you feel?.
2006-12-23 16:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by tidbittrivitt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her how you feel and put the ball in her court. If she decides she wants to be with someone else though you should move on. Sometimes people just like the extra attention and may play a game. You might want to imagine yourself in her bf shoes. How would you feel?
2006-12-23 16:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by C C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure she's not playing around with you. The best thing to do is ask her what are her true feelings about you. And if she says she loves you, then ask her why she still goes out with her boyfriend.
2006-12-23 16:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by Maria wants no hassle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the best damn friend she could ever have and when the time is right you guys will have a meaningful relationship if u force or allow her to cheal on her bf then she will eventually do it to u..
2006-12-23 16:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by Niinnaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out. get over with it. if she likes u enough to go out with u, then u'r lucky. and i do think she really likes u if she calls all the time and all that. give it a shot. if she says no, then just move on. think of it this way if she says NO, more time for u to find some other girl. anyways. goodluck. happy holidays.
2006-12-23 16:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i say if its not meant to be in the first place then you should stop trying she is obviously confused on who she wants to be with which is unfair to both you and the person she is with
2006-12-23 16:43:56 · answer #8 · answered by Jme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey bro.
you have only 2 ways
1# to still on the "Substitute seat "
2# be strong & tell her That You Love her Soo Much
& i prefere the 2nd
2006-12-23 16:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by Yasser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she loves you, she'll come to you. Don't try and kill their relationship. Just wait a while, and one day,she might wake up and say, "I'm in love with him!" Be confident1 Good Luck!
2006-12-23 16:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by ツ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋