2006-12-23 16:05:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It will happen when you least expect it.
2006-12-23 16:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the first thing I did was open myself back up to the dating game. Then I dated several gentleman in the last year.....this helped me tremendously to know what I want and don't want in a relationship. I met a gentleman about 3 months ago, while dating others. My discernment level has been nicely developed in the last year and I have a great feeling about this man. I let the other gentleman go as far as dating and have now cleared my calendar for this gentleman only. He does not know that I have done this. If he comes forward with his pursual and asks to date me exclusively......I am free to do so. If he does not, I am free to move on. On a side note......as I date several gentleman at the same time I am doing so always with integrity(no sleeping around) Navigating thru the dating scene this way is SO much easier.....no emotional attachment, much less complicated and every date is so much fun. No Stress. Good Luck to you......
2006-12-23 17:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by Janet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone once gave me some advice and when I finally decided to follow it, it happened.
I was 23 and single.. until I was 32. Now, in the Mormon world that is tough becuase we are really into marriage in the church.
Someone said to me, "Be the kind of person you are looking for and that person will recognize you".
So, I became as spiritual, and all the other many things that I was seeking in a mate. We then found each other.
I set out a bunch of goals for myself that would make me even more appealing.. I wanted to get my career going, get my own place, get my own car and live that experience before I got married so that I would know that I could do it. And I did. And right after those goals , I found him.
We have been married for 9 yrs now. Very happily I might add.
Note- many times what is RIGHT for us is NOT what we are looking for. I was wrong soo many times in what i THOUGHT was right for me. Its usually the opposite.
2006-12-23 16:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by SunValleyLife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing, He will come into your life. ( perhaps he's already in your group of guy friends?) Feelings and character-wise, you start from there,select and develop your frienship to a higher level .
You don't find the right guy or wait for him to be dropped form the sky (you could pray, of course!) Everything is fate.
Merry christmas:)
2006-12-23 16:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by Yoo Hoo! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a question staiting you want a bf.Ask them to put in thier e-mail adress.Then e-mail some of them to find out who is right for you.Trust me it works once I did it once as a trick it was hilarious.
2006-12-23 16:09:00 · answer #5 · answered by animefan2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep looking, keep testing to see if the guy's response is what you are looking for, and you stay looking attractive!
2006-12-23 16:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by ab3c2t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know his personality, share similar values, having attraction, caring for each other, acceptance from friends and families...etc. it's a long list!
2006-12-23 16:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to look at there personality, there looks, and find him
2006-12-23 16:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by conan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop looking it will happen when u least expect it just let it happen gl
2006-12-23 16:10:42 · answer #9 · answered by howcor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋