i like this guy who supposedly likes me. I decided to tell him i like him, and also asked him to please not tell anyone. all he said in reply to that was that he wouldnt tell anyone. other than that hes acting like nothing ever happened. am i wasting my time liking him or does he need more time to process it and think about what to do now?
2006-12-23 16:03:48 · 19 answers · asked by horse_crazy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the reason i didnt want him to tell anyone is cos a lot of people are suspicious of us and i dont want him to go telling anyone.
2006-12-23 16:17:17 · update #1
u r playing games, so yes.
2006-12-23 16:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by 120 IQ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends how long has it been since you told him...it may take him a few days to process it...some guys are really shy and hide their feelings...girls are a lot more open when it comes to sharing the way we feel than guys do...I would give him some time...maybe talk to him and see what is going on...
2006-12-23 16:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Lisa (I hope that's your name),
Men are like pizza, just waiting to be eaten. Some have pepperoni, others have sausage, and if you're unfortunate, pineapple. Sausage is the best, though, and that's why they don't tell! He is a sausage.
Hope this helps! (I'm good with metaphors)
Merry Christmas!
[ "Santa" ]
2006-12-23 16:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by THE JENSTER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long ago did you tell him? I think I would wait a while before deciding. Sometimes things that develope slowly are long lasting.
2006-12-23 16:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by HA! HA! HA! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he know you like him and he supposedly likes you and not trying to give y'all a chance all I can say is TO LEFT TO THE LEFT
2006-12-23 16:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by dana n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am going through kinda the same thing. he is my friend, and he has a gf though. i really like him, and he says he wont tell, even though he does. i try to move on... but its too hard! if you can, i think you should move on :)
2006-12-23 16:10:01 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes your wasting ur time you should probly move on cuz if he caint diside then ur wasting ur time and he probley has his eye on a nother girl but dont want to hurt your feelings
2006-12-23 16:09:25 · answer #7 · answered by peterbritt10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just went through the same thing. Best advice I can give is to just give him his time/space. He'll come to you when he's ready.
2006-12-23 16:06:12 · answer #8 · answered by arf_rawmeat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u made the first move now the balls in his court. you should pretend like nothing happened too and if he wants you believe me hell come to you
2006-12-23 16:05:30 · answer #9 · answered by BM33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u tell him not to tell anyone? u naive he did was supposed to do ,u dont expect him to say i love u too dont tell anyone how stupid?
2006-12-23 16:06:33 · answer #10 · answered by combs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe by you telling him that he got the idea you were embarrassed by the fact that you liked him or that you were embarrassed by him... think how you would reacted if he had said that to you
2006-12-23 16:07:11 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋