My girlfriend had a "girls night" with her cousin and came home with some other guys number on her hand. She swears no thought went into it and it was just harmless flirting. Should I make a big deal out of this?
2006-12-23 15:55:46 · 20 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I would be mad because if I was with someone, I'd expect them to NOT accept other people's phone numbers, regardless of it being a "girl's night" or whatever. That is extremely disrespectful.
2006-12-23 15:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't make a big deal of it. Unless you want her to dump you.
Yeah, she probably was flirting, and it probably is some dudes number, but unless you freak about it, she won't do anything with it. Its kind of like if you blow it off and take her for her word, it will just disappear. But if you get in her face about it she will use it against you for being too controlling and jealous.
If you really like her, just let it slide.
And when you are out next time and start talking to some chick, rememeber how you feel right now.
2006-12-23 16:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by mothsa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't make a big deal out of it but point out to her if it had been you out and coming home with a girls number on your hand ask her how that would make her feel? Let her know you didn't like that and kinda feel betrayed in a way...now there is gonna be problems when she is out because you are gonna think she is doing stuff she isn't suppose to be doing since she is not single...
2006-12-23 15:59:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad because harmless flirting escalated to phone number exchange.
2006-12-23 15:57:47 · answer #4 · answered by BlytheLyssa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think the flirting is harmless if a number swap occurs. I would be pissed if I were you.
2006-12-23 15:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by larkin1121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were a guy heck yess I would be mad
I am a wife and my husband had done this before marriage would have had problems before the marriage.
I am using my husbands login but mine is hawleysangel
2006-12-23 15:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by CLEO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! itll snowball onya man, dont let her be swept away by another guy. tell her that she means the world to you and your not comfortable with her "harmless" flirting and that she should stop. i cant stand it when girls flirt with other guys when they are already taken. thats the one thing that sets me off.you gotta set your limits, and she needs to know that. you dont want to lose her do you? so tell her that its not gonna fly with you if she pulls another stunt like that.
2006-12-23 16:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"harmless flirting" dem girls always have stuff to say be careful though u cant really judge her now till u notice sometin else
2006-12-23 15:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get mad also. If she respected your relationship, it would be simple to tell someone," Look I'm in a relationship important to me, I'm sorry I'm just not interested in having your number." It is that simple.
2006-12-23 15:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by Virginia C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 100% sure that its another guy's number then yeah.
2006-12-23 15:58:13 · answer #10 · answered by celinuchis90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋