if a guy that likes to drive, loves his car, but still has travelled over an hr to visit you a few times now... likes cuddling you & hasn't tried anything else (yet) does that mean he likes you like, quite a bit. he's told me he likes me, but he's told me he's not after a relationship at the moment. he wants to work himself out first. and i reminded him that i remembered that, he told me 'i like u tho'... does that mean i'm an exception for maybe a relationship? he's told me i remind him a lot of his ex... tho its a good thing. i'm very shy & i haven't done much with a guy... he told me last night i 'owed him cuddles' but i was too shy to make the move & he didn't make the move either, coz he wanted me to do it on my own... but now i feel sorta stupid... he told me it doesn't matter, he told me completely understands coz its new to me... but seems to like hanging out with me quite a alot lately... any advice is welcome... im not really sure what to think? i like him quite a bit already
2006-12-23 15:45:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea, he likes you, cuddle, flirt, take it from there
2006-12-23 15:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't want a relationship but he wants to cuddle? tell him to make up his mind! do you generally cuddle with people you are not in a relationship with? sounds like he wants the benefits without the commitment or giving anything of himself. don't settle for that. and by the way, men will always confuse you. that doesn't get better. they don't think the same way we do.
2006-12-23 15:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by Patricia B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
treat him as a friend and cut down the hanging out time with him. if he doesn't wanna a relationship, you should keep some distance in protection for your own sake. if he likes you enough, he'll come around and ask you out and be your bf. don't fall into a friendship with physical contact and give him lots of time while he gives you NO committement. you're worth a lot more than that! if he needs time to sort out things, give him time alone not with you!
2006-12-23 15:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by xyz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He likes you for sure, just take your time. Sounds like he is very guarded and is waiting till you feel comfortable and he can see that you open up more to him. If you like him as much then just talk to him, it will eventually develop or it won't
2006-12-23 15:57:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no need to rush.maybe he do like you but he is just not ready yet for serious commitment.he did tell you that you remind him of his ex,well,i guess he still cant get over that girl.
2006-12-23 15:52:19 · answer #5 · answered by leeyawna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, just live your life and have fun.
You dont have to make this a big issue.
Hobbies and sports and stuff are all around.
2006-12-23 15:49:36 · answer #6 · answered by Its me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya he likes u
2006-12-23 15:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by ryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuddle him!
2006-12-23 15:48:06 · answer #8 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with him.
2006-12-23 15:52:34 · answer #9 · answered by Sercet Person 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋