Okay so I've been friends with this guy for like 12 years! I stopped handing out with alot of my friends and today I saw him in particular! About 10 months ago we where at a little party and I gave him head but to me it was really wierd! Well today he was like yeah I remember what we did at so-n-so's house, that was alot of fun! Then he was talking about how I gave the best head and how I made his fantasy come true, blah, blah, blah!!!! I was quite flattered but at the same time I was like yeah right whatever! I mean how many of you guys would say things like that to get in a girls pants? I obviously don't know because I'm a girl but does anyone think he really means what he says!
2006-12-23 15:44:17 · 19 answers · asked by Mandy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what I really regret asking this question! So before you even answer or read on don't even worry about it! I should have known better! There is more to the story but it doesn't really matter cause I could never type it all and now I just look like some huge slut!!! (Thanks alot guys I think I got more than enough answers!)
2006-12-23 16:14:10 · update #1
You're " quite flattered that he complimented you " on how you orally pleased him and how you "made his fantasy come true". He's flattered ? You ' care ' what he really means or says ? After this guy sees you again after having known him several years, you share with him orally . . . That was your personal choice (no needed comments on that). I see the focus here being the statement he is making to you...that statement being...I'm not interested in you as an individual, as a person...but sexually...you're great...want to do that again. Isn't that the relationship between a guy on the street and a whore? That relationship being..."I have no personal valuing interest in you, but you serve a purpose of getting me off". Dear heart...seek a man who desires to hug not only your body, but also (more importantly) your soul. Let this guy go, spend no more energy wondering of his intentions. Value your own body and personal self and heart. Seek one who hugs not just the body but the soul (as well). Peace to you.
2006-12-23 15:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by onelight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just trying to get some. if he was really interested in you, he wouldn't bring up the head part.. i mean he's known you for 12 years there are probably other redeming qualities about you that he could have said he liked.
2006-12-23 23:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by angie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im not going to read the question even but yes, all guys want to get in all girls pants
2006-12-23 23:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by mr.jeremy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
thats not an easy think to know, but if you love him & he loves you, than that shouldnt make any difference to you because its not important what makes him hot, its more important if you love one another which in this case i believe you have the answer for it, because you know him for 12 years, now if there is no real love between you & him i dont think that you are a slut, sorry for my expresion
2006-12-23 23:57:15 · answer #4 · answered by M.J. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, you gave 'head' at a PARTY.
Wheres your self respect?
By the way, im having a little party and your invited.
2006-12-23 23:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by Its me 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guys would do a LOT to get into a girls pants...
2006-12-23 23:46:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well he sounds like a pervert that just wants to bang and run.
2006-12-23 23:55:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not even going to read your post. All guys want is to get into womens pants. You are an idiot for asking.
2006-12-23 23:46:08 · answer #8 · answered by jeeperscreepersthree 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i would say he just wants some more head,and some good luvin and is going to say whatever it takes to get it
2006-12-23 23:48:00 · answer #9 · answered by matty60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You so need to stop giving head, it obviously leads to sex!
2006-12-23 23:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by don b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋