if a guy that likes to drive, loves his car, but still has travelled over an hour to visit you... likes hugging u and hasn't tried anything else (yet) does that mean he likes you like, quite a bit. he's told me he likes me, but he's told me he's not after a relationship at the moment, but seems to like hanging out with me quite a alot lately... any advice is welcome... i'm not really sure what to think?
2006-12-23 15:23:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok he could be just looking for friendship that your relationship brings, or he may like but just not know how to go about it , but dont spend 5 yrs waiting for this guy when you could miss out on some thing else
2006-12-23 15:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by pen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
emmm maybe he is just kinda shopping around... wants to see and be convinced that that hour long drive is worth it. I think you should continue the things that way they are going . But do not do anything serious withhim until he will be committed to a real relationship. Otherwise you might end up hurt
2006-12-23 23:28:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he means what he says. my advice would be to play it cool for a while and let him make the first move. if he likes you then he will make a move, but maybe he just wants to be friends. He might just be looking for a good friend, so dont get too caught up.
2006-12-23 23:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by Who, Me?? ...I'm Lost... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow....don't' expect anything (other than respect)..and don't have intimacy if he is not ready to commit. He obviously values you, or else he would not drive so far..he would want the mileage.Don't put pressure for a title...it will happen if it is meant to. Good luck!!
2006-12-23 23:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you... very much! Trust me, If he drives an hour just to see you.. there is something there. I don't know your ages, nor his real intentions, but you should really spend some serous time together, have fun, and talk.. really talk.
Share your thoughts, your feelings.. don't be afraid.
He may only need to know your heart...
and you may be pleasantly surprised!
Good Luck!!!
2006-12-23 23:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must live in a nice house because what he is doing is a common ploy. He is actually scouting the house for valuables so when the time is right he can burglarize your home. What you sould do is obvious, smash his car.
2006-12-23 23:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by -------- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to what he is telling you, he told you up front he doesn't want a relationship, take him at his word, he may like spending time with you but he has already warned you, and he is assuming you heard what he said, so he feels comfortable, listen carefully, so you will not be hurt.......
2006-12-23 23:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants 2 be friends right now and if u become closer later then watever but he;s not ready yet.
2006-12-23 23:28:26 · answer #8 · answered by Risky_Bizness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as guys we say what we mean, if he says he is not looking, he is not looking, but he might like you as a friend, and the fact that he is going so far means that when he dose start looking, you would be a first on his list.
2006-12-23 23:43:27 · answer #9 · answered by atomicshockwave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being honest with you. Try just being friends first. See what comes from that.
2006-12-23 23:26:09 · answer #10 · answered by mich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋