This is the 2nd time this has happened!My boyfriend and I went to pizza hut with some friends and there dates we ordered 3 medium pizzas then 4 girls walk into the door my guy startd looking at them and smiling and so does my friend's guy I got so mad that I took 1 of the pizzas and slapped him in the face with it then took another one and smeared it on his shirt he got really pissed off that he almost cried even worst then the last time in my other question and ran out pizza hut everyone was looking including those 4 skanks my friend didn't do anything to her boyfriend she just gave him the silent treatment DO YOU THINK I DID THE RIGHT THING?I THINK SO
2006-12-23 15:17:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
These people should really get off your back. That probably was ur first reaction (reflex). The guy is a dick head and he shouldn't of disrespected u like that. But next time try 2 think before u act.
2006-12-23 15:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by songbirdz03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, the pizza was a little extreme. Why waste a perfectly good pizza on some immature guy? Even though your bf was wrong in what he did, you should have kept your cool a little better. You can't control others actions, but you do have to learn to control yours. You may want to look into some anger management lessons, because life is full of situations that are going to make you angry and you will have to learn how to deal with them constructively. You deserve to be with a guy who will only look at you, if you are with a guy that looks at other people then he does not deserve you. Don't sink to his level by loosing control. Keep the control, and just dump him.
2006-12-23 15:26:43 · answer #2 · answered by Josie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling like doing somthing like that is one thing... but actually doing it is another. I have to say this to maybe get my point across. You HAVE to get your emotions under control. You HAVE to ACT more secure than you really feel. There will ALWAYS be someone more pretty, smart, rich.. so on and so forth than you. Me and everyone else as well. Act as though you think your beautiful especially in a situation like that. Guys, men, will notice other girls, (unless their dead). Its how long they stare, its how long there eyes linger that shows disrespect. You counld have smiled as well, and blew everyone else away with your grace and confidence. YOU notice beautiful people ALL the time. It's what you do about it. And remember, it's also most important that your fit, and healthy, and beautiful on the INSIDE. What you did tonight was NOT pretty, or attractive. I really am trying to help. We have all been there. You mostly also want a decent man that respects girls and doesn't objectify them. If you have sex with him, you are also more likly to act crazily, and worry about other girls. If he really loves you he will respect you and will want to wait for the sex. I know that MTV and movies and society is pushing girls to have sex. GIRLS are different from GUYS when it come to having sex. Guys DON"T develope that insane attachment that we do. You all know it. We get attached, we get our feelings hurt. Forget about desease and pregnancy. Not worth it till you at least have a ring and date in my opinion. (getting married) .....Good luck
2006-12-23 15:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by babylorelei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you probably did the right thing. Your bf checking out other girls is a deffenite no no! Slapping him with both pizzas could be a BIT over the top though... tell him how angry his actions made you, but i think he most deff. gets the point by now. thats an accomplishment, boys are pretty hard to get through to. :]
2006-12-23 15:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by k@Ti3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you did not do the right thing.
First... you are a single woman and he is a single man. Your relatinship is supposedly to be so you can gather enough information about one another so yall can see if both your lives can join together compatibly in the future. He is not your husband yet and he hasnt asked you to promise yourself in marriage to him.
Second... you have a posessive & violent streak about you in order for you to lay your hands (or pizza) on someone who you have no claims to as your husband. you are either single (but dating-which is gathering info to asess compatibility), engaged or married!!
He can rightfully look and smile at anyone just like if you and your girls were hanging out ya'll would kind of look at become shy or bashful at a group of fine hunks that just came thru the door...
Those girls know yall were on a date and of course he knew it too!!because he noticed and smile at PEOPLE who walked in the door doesnt mean he has a problem with commitment or will cheat on you in a serious relatinoship.
If I were him I would leave you !! You disrespected him and I am surprised he didnt get physical with you because you humiliated him publicly!!!! But he had enough respect of you to walk away in his anger!!
You seem to have self esteem nad trust issues like you are afraid someone is giong to take him from you. He is sitting with YOU at that table and not them!! or he was...
2006-12-23 15:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by DconS 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Girl! Guys are always going to look! You can't let it get to you so hard! I do believe that you over reacted. Now you don't have a boyfriend. Next time, and there will be a next time, just do the same to the guy. If the guy mentions it, then tell him you can look and smile just like he can. Regardless, guys just can't help it. But as long as they aren't touching or talking then it's nothing.
2006-12-23 15:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by mich 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was going to say he sounds like a jerk for being so rude about looking. but you seem to be right on his level to smear a pizza on him. that doesn't sound right either.
i understand your pissed but looking is human if he's doing more than that he's not the guy for you anyway. sounds like you should move on if this is his normal way of treating you.
2006-12-23 15:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by liketoplay420 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time 2 get out of that relasioship. Try being single 4 awhile.
2006-12-23 15:21:38 · answer #8 · answered by nadie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u burnt -out if i was him i going leave your a s s for that if is ogling though is diffrent case but in any case u are supposed to call his attention not disgraced in pizza hut among all places
2006-12-23 15:20:37 · answer #9 · answered by combs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be checking the phone book for the nearest mental health clinic, and hope you get some help before you get arrested for assault. I think him leaving you should be the least of your worries.
2006-12-23 15:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by letsgetagripalready 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋