My boyfriends friend tried to force me physicly to do sexual things with him, then when I eventualy punched him he quit trying but told me he would kill me if I said n e thing to n e one. I eventually did tell my guy because he could tell something was up and I was not right. He beleived me as far as I thought and that was about a year ago. He did confront the guy over the phone, but that was it. Now my boyfriends ex, friends, and even family are acusing me of having sex with the man. I beged my borfriend not to tell n e one and not only did he, but I think he is saying I willingly had sex with the man and just felt bad, so I tole him that. He has even said this to me himself when he was mad at me a few times. What should I do, the guy honestly tried raping me and I faught him off.
2006-12-23 14:58:48 · 12 answers · asked by lil_kim_poster 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if your boyfriend believes that disgusting friend instead of you then i dont know what to think of your boyfriend.he needs to get a grip on life and face the music and realize that his friend is a jerk.if he doesnt treat you any better then i would seriously think of leaving him and finding another man who would stand behind me totally.next time any man tries to touch you or rape you call the police and do not put up with it any more.get away from your boyfriend because its plain he isnt going to support you in this.
2006-12-23 15:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by jbearbooboo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend did not protect u, or stop the person, now he is insulting the victim here, and showing disrespect. he doesn't sound as if he has your best interest at heart, and u will never be able to have a good relationship with him, cause he is not sticking up for u, when these people are hurting u. the guy is just trying to wiggle out of what he did, by making it seem as if u asked for it. how sad for u.
2006-12-23 15:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's crazy. And he is eventually going 2 hurt u report him. When n e one tells u they will kill u most of the time they are goin 2 try or will do it so get some help b4 it's 2 late.
2006-12-23 15:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by Risky_Bizness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you can't go back and change it now but you should have reported it to the police. I know it wasn't your fault or anything but a lot of times people think someone is lying if they don't report it. If your boyfriend is saying these things, he isn't worth having.
2006-12-23 15:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is being a total a hole right now, that is not caring , loving nor respectable thing to do, he should be supporting you, you should have a serious conversation with him and confront him.....and find out if he really loves you because he does love you he would trust you......i really don't think he trust you
2006-12-23 15:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by sandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break up with your boyfriend. He does not respect or trust you. If he or the terrible guy continue to bother you, speak to the police about it.
2006-12-23 15:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by Contessa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree. call the police- but i'd also consider dumping your boyfriend. you need someone who will believe you if you honestly tell him that it wasn't your fault. and he should forgive you... unless it happens more than once then he has permission to think twice about it. but yes- call the police and think about your relationship.
2006-12-23 15:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by Emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have reported it. When a girl goes around claiming she was raped and wont press charges my assumption is she either wasn't raped or she had something to do with it and encouraged it. Report rape when it happens or don't whine about it.
2006-12-23 15:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Omg if this is serious, call the police, man.
2006-12-23 15:02:02 · answer #9 · answered by GROOVY LILY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe your bf friend told him that he did you.... that is why he was consumed with doubt that led him to angrily accusing you. by the way leave your bf.
2006-12-23 15:03:09 · answer #10 · answered by AutumnMemoirs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋