Ok im 15 years old and how do I tell my mom I am so scared!?!?! what do I do????
2006-12-23 14:57:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Give your mom a chance. Just when you think you know how she's going to react, you don't. Your mom can be your best source of help in this situation. She's going to find out sooner or later, and it's definitely best that she finds out from you.
The only exception to this is that if you think that your mother may harm you or your baby, make sure to have another adult present who can help deal with the situation if it gets out of hand.
If there is no threat, it's best to talk to your mom about this when the two of you are alone, so she doesn't feel like she's being 'ganged up on', or feel pressured to respond a certain way.
2006-12-23 16:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't know how your mom will react but you need to tell her and if you think it will help tell another adult you trust and ask them to help you tell her. My sister was 16 an in this situation and handled it badly....She waited until she was 8 months pregnant and having contractions before she told anyone which made the birth of her child very stressful on so many levels. So tell her now, tell her everything and give her time to adjust to the idea and help you make decissions on what to do next. There is no perfect time but you are in a very adult situation and you need to handle it maturely.
2006-12-24 09:17:10 · answer #2 · answered by tjnos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure every mom has said if my daughter ever came home pregnant thats it. She would be out of the house. But when my sister came home 15 and pt. my mom was very understanding and supportive. You need to tell her ASAP because thats what is best for you and your baby. I know your scared, just ease into it
2006-12-24 03:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by just_acali_girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
me & my sis were just talkin about this.. bc im 16, shes 13
i would keep it cool for a min. dont tell her.. but the again dont
wait until the last month too.. its dangerous for you & the baby
just wait for a good day
good luck;; your gunna need it.. esp. if your mom if as strict as
mine.. HAPPY NEW YEARR!.
2006-12-24 00:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by chelsღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dito Lauren.
Im sorry you are going through this.
it might help for you to talk to a trusted adult first, then talk to your parents.
good luck.
2006-12-24 01:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by Shellberry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋