I've cheated on my wife several times, she doesn't know. I'm currently haveing an affair now. I don't want to get a devorce because i might have to pay child support. Should i tell her and try to see if she'll continue to be married to me?
2006-12-23 14:52:26 · 12 answers · asked by dontbeme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shame on you. YOu have to stop that obnoxious act. Talk to your pastor.
2006-12-23 14:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by Agentj100 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that is really low. Tell her the truth, you should be concerned about your WIFES feelings, rather than your pocket after a divorce. Your WIFE doesn't even know your sleeping with another woman. Tell Her! How would you feel if she was the one in the affair, and you didnt know any better? You wouldn't just want to go on living an unhonest relationship and pretend its okay when its not. DO THE RIGHT THING!
2006-12-23 14:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not wanting to pay child support should not be the only reason for wanting to stay with your wife if you dont love her anymore than set her straight let her know whats been going on i know if it were me i would want to know. she'll be hurt but i mean if she were to find out from someplace else that you were having an affair than she'd be really hurt. im sure you at least somewhat care about her,so tell her the truth and what happens from there happens
2006-12-23 14:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your able to have an affair then you obviously don't love your wife enough to stay married to her. Pay for child support. If you do tell her then she will most likly want a divorce.
2006-12-23 14:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 23:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by laseter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute!!!!! If youve been getting away with it for that long and your that good that you can keep it from her...then why bother saying anything. If the affair is good and the girl will let you have more fun with her in bed than your wife......atta boy giver. all the power to you.
2006-12-23 14:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Nice Guy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you will have to pay child support if yous divorce and no you shouldn't tell her.. would you rather spend the next ten years unhappily married to someone you no longer love over money or have happiness that puts a little dent in your wallet... think about it :) :) :)
2006-12-23 15:01:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should tell her. its extremely wrong to have an affair. besides if your "manely enough" to be with 2 women then you should be manly enough to pay child support.
2006-12-23 14:55:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude..comon...if you are really interested in other women get a divorce..you should have thought of that before you had kids with her...i wouldn't count on her still being merried to you if you tell her!
2006-12-23 14:56:33 · answer #9 · answered by kayla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definatley get a divorce its not all about the money, you could me hurting in ways that can never be repaired.you make me sick!
2006-12-23 14:57:58 · answer #10 · answered by lovepink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋