He dumped me today. I'm really sad because we loved each other. He was my first and only love. I just want to know how long it should take until I feel better.
2006-12-23 14:51:14 · 27 answers · asked by NoDoubt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what a bad time for him to do this (not that its ever easy) - I'm sorry. you will probably start to feel a little better in a couple weeks- try to stay busy w/ whatever you like to do (sports, hobbies, school etc) & stay close to people who make you feel happy. best of luck-
2006-12-23 14:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's tough sweetie. And I'm sorry you have to endure this for the holidays. We are all different. If getting over somebody in a day or two was feasible, what kind of world would we live in? Recovering from heartache is a day by day thing. Me personally, I think I'm better off on my own, so my New Years resolution is to do my own thing. That way I won't open myself up to pain. But whatever. The best you can do is take it one day at a time. Good luck.
2006-12-23 14:58:50 · answer #2 · answered by mumra_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your first love, you probably will never truly get over it and will always love him on some level. I've found that it takes about 1-2 months for every year you were together to get to the point where you are not as sad as you are right now. Keep yourself occupied. The more busy you are, the easier it is to keep the breakup off your mind.
2006-12-23 14:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by Lilly Jones-Fair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is really recent you might feel very sad now but when a couple of days go by you'll be over him so quickly. You'll never forget your first love but you will not be hurt or share feelings for him anymore. Remember this, time heals everything and time is your best friend. Good Luck.
2006-12-23 14:55:23 · answer #4 · answered by CR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time hun. It really depends on the person. Go out and try to have fun. Call up your girlfriends and go shopping, or do something with them that will make you feel better. Sorry for your break up, obviously he wasn't Mr. Right if he dumped you. Good Luck
2006-12-23 14:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely will take some time. Few things to start with :
1. Keep yourself occupied.
2. If you keep on remembering the hot/passionate moments time and again, write everything about them somewhere. Write all dirty details. And then you'll start to feel that nothings left to remember. I agree the writing part would be difficult. Many a times you'll wanthim to be near you, feeling you. But once you are done with writing, feeling would be gone.
PS : Dont forget to destroy whatever you have written after words.
2006-12-23 14:54:45 · answer #6 · answered by neat questions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the shown fact which you're thinking despite in case you ought to sell off your boyfriend speaks volumes!! in case you quite enjoyed him you does no longer be asking this question, or be having thoughts for somebody else. this is entirely as much as you what you go with for to do. in straightforward terms you quite know the answer to this. have you ever oftentimes going on this new guy for long? Are you constructive he's fascinated? Dont stay which comprise your boyfriend for the incorrect motives. if your courting with him has seen extra suitable days, then end with him, yet do end on good words. Its of undertaking you're taking despite in case you end which comprise your contemporary boyfriend and make a play for this new guy. no longer something is definite in existence. you ought to end which comprise your boyfriend, and this different guy will possibly no longer become what you expected. in case you pass with this new guy and it doesnt paintings out, could you pass working decrease back on your previous boyfriend? That wouldnt be honest to play him approximately like that. Make up your techniques, save on with it and pass on.
2016-11-23 14:14:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry he dumped you but to answer your question: it depends on how long you were w/ him and how much you loved him. sometimes it may take as long as it takes to get a new boy friend or you may have to find the things you didn't like about him and make yourself think he was ugly and make yourself think he wasn't "it".
2006-12-23 14:56:20 · answer #8 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your feelings for him. If you want to get over him soon, then involve yourself in activities that you love doing on your own and with other friends. But usually it takes about a month to 4 months
2006-12-23 14:59:35 · answer #9 · answered by AJ13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly imma say 3 months that how long it did for me and i dated for 3 years i still want her but i dunno diff now she treated me bad after the break up laughn at me and what not to her friends now shes calling again just let it go trust me the always come back dont let em know it hurts do it from the beginning that is where i went wrong i know its hard just trust me do it
2006-12-23 14:55:24 · answer #10 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋