My ex gf that i love broke up with me 2 and half months ago and since the break up she has treated me like **** and talked to me anyway she thought that she could so i finally said FUHK it i aint takin it no more so i just stopped trying to get her back since then she has called me a few times in the past 2 days i sent her a text thnkin i knew what she wanted then i didnt hear from her till today what do you think she wants what you think i should do if its important enough she would leave me a voicemail or something right??
2006-12-23 14:43:54 · 23 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when you ignore her she calls,when you call her,she treats you like crap ..mmmm
I think you got something there .
2006-12-23 14:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a number of different things
1. She wants some good d*ck
2. She is lonely for the holidays and wants some good d*ck
3. She is feeling insecure for whatever reason (maybe somebody called her fat) and some good d*ck will make her feel better...
i.e. She is using you. Ignore her! Not only will that make her want you more, that will make other girls want you as well... If you talk to her (which you shouldn't) make sure you don't succumb to any sexual/emotional/romantic advances. Find another chick and f*ck her brains out over the holidays as a rebound!!!
Your ex is trifling and is playing games!!!
2006-12-23 22:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by caribbeanbabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut her out for good. My first boyfriend (fiancee) did that to me and next day he was out with someone new...I was devestated...then he starts to call and come around and I agreed to go out to a dinner to see what the hell he wanted...starts telling me how he missed me etc...and I said you know what? Too bad...YOU left me...and you ain't ever getting me back.
It was the hardest thing I ever did but no way, no matter how much I still had feelings, could or would I take him back. That felt so good too. It still took a long time to heal but I have never ever regretted the decision and would never have met my beautiful hubby or had my 3 wonderful kids...he on the hand was and still is nothing I would ever be interested in again! LOL
2006-12-23 22:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, if it was REALLY important she should leave a voice mail. and she would call much more than you say she does.
she might realized she messed up leaving you. but you have to decided whether or not its worth getting back together. you got to weigh out the pros and the cons and be careful she can potentially hurt you beyond your imagination. so be very careful... and have a happy holidays
2006-12-23 22:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you talk to her ask her straight up hey look your the one that broke up with me, what do you want , to get back together or what. Wanna work it out or leave alone its her choice not yours, just don't push it, bee cool about it. Cause she just wants to get you worked up so she can use it over your head on you in the future, this i know from past experience. good luck bud..
2006-12-23 22:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by rock god 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's messing with you, probably told all her friends she can get you back anytime she wants and is making you look like a fool, acting like you're the one who won't leave her alone. Ignore her and go on with your life.
2006-12-23 22:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by letsgetagripalready 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing mind games. She knows she string you along and treat you like crap because you keep letting her. Move on. She's not worth it. There's another girl out there who'll love you and not do this to you.
2006-12-23 22:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by alimagmel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should look for a new girlfriend. The old one seems to like breaking your heart. How much can you take, until you are a broken man..??
2006-12-23 23:08:21 · answer #8 · answered by Jungleroy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She misses you dearly and i suggest you speak to her. At this time of the year.....we feel close to those who love us the most.
I will be thinking of u.
Merry Christmas.
2006-12-23 22:47:19 · answer #9 · answered by tomy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause she is trying to come back to you and you should not let her . she is the one who broke up with you just move on she does not deserve you . dont call her back cause that is what she wants you to do. good luck and god bless and happy holidays.
2006-12-23 22:56:31 · answer #10 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to know what she wants you're going to have to ask HER since she is the only one who knows the answer to that question.
2006-12-23 22:46:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋