i notice that every time i turn around he's looking at me. hes really cute, and i really want him wat now?
2006-12-23 14:28:44 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG...find someone your own age little girl..and you're supposed to go to Church to pray and thank God for all that he's given you, not look at 20 yr olds
2006-12-23 14:35:27 · answer #1 · answered by Giselle 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
In short, do nothing! Dating relationships should be between peers, and there's no way you can be an equal to a guy who's 67% older than you.
Seriously, to see how crazy this is, turn the sexes around: just imagine a 12-year-old boy who wanted to date a 20-year-old woman. What would you think of the woman if she took up such a relationship?
You're 12 now, and you're going to go through a lot of growing up experience in the next 10 years. Age 20-24 is a good time to get married. Take care!
2006-12-23 14:50:07 · answer #2 · answered by weebl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FYI: Guys in their 20's are nowhere near middle aged. They're just way too old for you. And no, there's nothing wrong with you being attracted to older men (I mean, Brad Pitt's what, like 45?), but there would be something seriously wrong with any man over 18 dating a 15 year old girl.
2016-05-23 03:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am definitely the one always arguing about how "age aint nothin but a number", however in this case it is MORE than a number. This is a big NO. You are not quite at that maturity level, if he is attracted to a 12 year old thats pretty sick. JUST SAY NO and STAY IN SCHOOL.
2006-12-23 14:38:28 · answer #4 · answered by . 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You just don't do it.
You're 12. Be happy with being 12. You don't need a grown man when you are still a child, simple as that.
You only really want him because you're stuck in a fantasy. Wait to date period when you're old enough.
And honestly, I'm being kind with what and how I just said that.
2006-12-23 17:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by neserit_luncast 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay first thing is first. Age 6 years. What you can't do that on command?! Well then I guess we will just have to wait. I know it's old fashion, but until we can will our bodies and minds to age then it is our only option.
Trust me, at your age he does NOT want you in anyway, shape, or form. The most that crosses his mind about you is this, "She is a pretty child. I hope her parents are raising her to be a respectable young lady."
2006-12-23 14:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHOA. Slow down there. He is 8 years older than you. He can get in serious trouble if you two decide to be more than friends. Now, there's nothing wrong with having a CRUSH, but don't take it any further then that. I'm not even kidding, I'm talking about Jail Time on his part.
2006-12-23 14:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
He's 20. He works at a church. You're 12. THIS IS WRONG ON SO MANY LEVELS.
2006-12-23 15:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
at 12 years old you are to young for him
2006-12-25 12:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're better off just leaving him alone...You don't want to get yourself wound up in a mess like that, worse yet if you two did get into any kind of relationship he risks jail/prison time...
2006-12-23 14:32:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋