but I can flirt with any other guy?
2006-12-23 14:19:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you are afraid that the guy you REALLY like might not like you back, and you don't want to mess things up. Just go talk to him and relax! Good luck!
2006-12-23 14:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its easy to talk to those people that we are neutral with but when it comes to having feelings about someone that changes the entire picture you get butterflies because of self doubt and from building this thing up to being bigger than it really is and we all fear rejection if you weren't interested in him there would not be any fear of rejection so what ya gotta do is breath real deep several times and imagine when you are talking to him that he is naked don't laugh this will work..... then you will feel so sorry for him that you will forget all about being nervous and the conversation will go very well ..... its like walking out on stage and imagining the audiences naked your butterflies go away immediately because it is too funny to worry about anythng go get 'em you got the right stuff now strut it times a wasting" go be the hottie that you see in the mirror on your best days he'll really love it
2006-12-23 22:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by doc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because u really like this guy and when u flirt with other guys it means nothing to u. This guy makes ur heart skip a beat or makes u feel like nothing else matters to u. Build up the courage and when u feel the time is right ask him out.
2006-12-23 22:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the feeling of being anxious is really the fear of rejection, just be yourself and if that's not good enough then he's not good enough. The being able to flirt with any other guy is probably because you feel no real attraction or attachment so it is alot easier to let your guard down or just have fun.
2006-12-23 22:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by hoax719 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know thats hard for you & you are scared to fail, but there is no victory without strugle & no strugle without a dream so if you can find a way to build your self esteem a little bit & encurage yourself to go talk to him even if its hard, because when the feeling of rejecion comes it makes you give up, but you can try thinking of the good results over & over spacialy when you decide now is the time to go talk to him dont forget picturing in your mind how good the possitie results will feel like good luck should god be with you
2006-12-23 22:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by M.J. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens to me all the time, i can flirt with any guy but weneva it comes to talkin to the guy i like it alwaiiz comes out all rong.
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2006-12-23 22:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by !XxXDevil'sRejectXxXCatLover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The more you like someone the more tongue tied you get.
But consider, if the chemistry is right, you won't be able to say anything wrong, if not, then you won't be able to say anything right (in which case there was nothing to lose).
2006-12-23 22:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are scared to be rejected if you tell him how you feel. Godd luck!
2006-12-23 22:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by LW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like him moor their is something about him tell him talk to him let him know how you feel about him you nerve no he mite be the one for you
2006-12-23 22:26:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your normal.
2006-12-23 22:26:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋