I'm too forward with girls. Help?

Question

Girls are a problem with me. When I have a crush on one, either me or my friends (mostly) can't keep it a secret. And then, I come on a bit too strong, if you undertand where I'm going. I guess I'm so "desperate" to get her that I let myself go to early, or go overboard and not realize it till it's too late, and I never seem to learn from old mistakes. Nothing sexual, just profession of true feelings, "your beautiful", "go to lunch sometime", etc. I guess it creeps your girls out. I did the same to a girl just a while ago, and then she hated me, but know I don't know. I'm not a stalker, don't get me wrong, but how do I stop my aggressive offensive feelings.
Two questions:
1. How do I let a girl know I like her and let her like me without going over the limit of what's acceptable?
2. The girl I mentioned earlier. I don't see girls that often, and I still really like her and think she's the most beautiful person on Earth. I really want to get her back. Can 1? If yes, how?

Answer 1

Things will get much much better as soon as you relax. Ignore the girls if they ignore you. Be friendly in a way similar to to they way they are friendly.

You never have to let the girl know. Your actions, smiles and attention is an automatic clue to how much you like the young lady.

You can't "get somebody back," if they weren't yours to begin with. You've heard the expression, if you love someone let them free, and they will come back if it was meant to be.

The more practice you get with women, the easier it will get. Be friendly with all sorts of women. You will quickly find out what works and what does not work.

Good Luck!

C-F

Answer 2

Here is sometips man this will help you out...


Don't ever leave it too late, you'll regret it. Hang around her a bit more. Get to know her. If you're uncomfortable with that, bring friends. It's always nice to talk in a group.
Make eye contact. Eye contact is a perfect way to let a girl know you like her, without saying so. Be casual about it, though. Look her in the eyes, and when she meets your eyes, smile a light, casual smile. After the smile keep eye contact just a second or two longer and then slowly look to another thing. If she gives you a "What the heck?" look, dull the smile and casually look away, but don't really move to much. You do not want to draw unwanted attention to yourself.
Speak slowly and easily.
After you feel you've broken the ice, ask her questions to get to know her better. What is her favorite color? Her favorite band? You can even ask what class she has next.
Ask her if she wants to spend lunch with you or go somewhere after school.
If she says yes, well done! If she says no, no worries. Just keep talking to her so she knows you haven't gone off of her.
Over time you should build a friendship, so now you know that you're getting somewhere. This is when you ask her.
Wait until you are alone and relaxed, and not likely to be interrupted. Tell her how you feel, and see what happens. If you’ve spent time building a foundation for the relationship, even if she says no you’ve still got a great friend.

Answer 3

I think it's important to show your interest in a subtle way first. Have some conversations and form a friendly connection, at least. Then you can begin to gauge whether or not she likes you as more than a friend.

I think that being somewhat forward is a good thing - no one likes a boy who plays games, and when my boyfriend is forward about something, I find it to be a turn-on, it doesn't creep me out at all, it makes me feel liked.

Answer 4

Girls don't like wusses, don't act needy, you are the guy so act like one an don't push~
Tell her she should go out with you so she can be seen with a hot guy!

Answer 5

get to know them before you start professing your love to them. be their friend

Answer 6

You weren't being too forward, if she didn't appreciate your compliments and your attraction to her, then forget her.